111 Faces of Klamath Falls - Photography Project, Week 12

March 28, 2021 Joey Gentry-Smith

Hello!

The next three subjects in “111 Faces of Klamath Falls” are Joseph, Ed, and Nicole.

I consider Joseph a friend, but our connection is unusual. We’re not connected on any social media, and we don’t have each other’s phone numbers, but we see each other around every so often, when it’s time to see each other around every so often. I had JUST been thinking that I would like to include Joseph in this project and was hoping to run into him soon, and just like that…I ran into him at the park! A few weeks or months will pass and I’ll think, ”I haven’t seen Joseph around,” and then just like that… I’ll see him!

Ed and Nicole aren’t complete random strangers, but I hadn’t actually ever met them.

Joseph - 34

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “Communing with nature.”

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “I’m an easy-going guy."

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: For the problems we’re facing now, with division and divisiveness, Joseph said, “we’ve got to bridge the gap to bring each other together as one untied family. We’re one human family that is being divided by everything…we need to be more loving towards each other.”

Q: What’s your life’s dream/goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: Joseph is a filmmaker and for as long as I’ve known him, he’s been dreaming of, and working toward doing a project with Netflix. (A film called, “Smile and Be Afraid.”) He continues to persist, and he’s optimistic that he’s getting closer to someday making this a reality! Best wishes and all the good vibes that this comes to fruition soon!

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (personal legacy statement)

A: “I would like to be remembered as a good person, as a kind person, as a happy person, and as an honest and reliable person.”

Ed - 35

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “My Grandkids!”

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “I’m 71 years old and I’m still alive!”

Ed also added that he climbs Mt. Shasta every year!

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: “I don’t have solutions, I have a few ideas…dialogue solves a lot of problems, but it’s not a strong trait in a lot of our leaders today.”

Q: What’s your life’s dream/goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: “At this point in my life, my goal is to pass some of my knowledge and my business to my children, and give them the same opportunities that I had.”

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (personal legacy statement)

A: “I want to be remembered as fair, and that I listened to other people and helped to guide them with calmness and serenity.”

Ed is a farmer. I spotted Ed doing some spring cleaning with fire. (Burning to clear weeds.) I pulled off to the side of the road to observe his process and then walked over near him, careful not to catch myself on fire, and explained that I had stopped to watch and ask a few questions about burning and other tractor options.

Ed and I visited for quite a while. It would take well over a thousand words to explain to you the significance of our encounter. It was a meaningful exchange, and important to me. I’ve spent the past week considering just how I would try to adequately explain this if you’re not from around here. Someday, I’ll write about this topic at length, but this photo project isn’t the right place. Instead, I’ll give you the super condensed explanation of some background, so you’ll understand just how special our visit was to me.

Please understand, this is an extremely over-simplified explanation. (and the explanation is coming from my point of view, and opinion.) I’m only sharing it because meeting Ed and talking with him has made an impact on me. I meet people in my photo projects who will stick with me forever, and Ed is one of those people.

One of the biggest issues in all of Klamath County, is our ongoing water crisis. Agriculture is a main industry here. Another important part of our community is our Indigenous People - The Klamath Tribes. We’ve been battling severe drought conditions for over two decades. In the most concise explanation I can give, there’s too many consumptive users and not enough water to sustain our ecosystems and agricultural industry. Remember, I’m over-simplifying this! Our water crisis has resulted in an ecological crisis and a crisis within our community, or communities. We must fight to preserve species and prevent fish from going extinct, which are culturally significant to the Klamath Tribes, and also protected by both the endangered species act, as well as protected by a nation-to-nation treaty with the US Government. Basically, by law, and by law of nature, we need to protect species from going extinct. Because the Tribe has Senior Water Rights, and because our Irrigators also have water rights, and of course, crops can’t grow without water and fish can’t live without healthy water and the endangered fish are of critical cultural importance to the Tribe, and were once a subsistence food source…the result is a divided community because there hasn’t been enough water to sustain thriving fish populations (because of poor water quality and a host of other reasons) and enough for irrigation needs.

If you don’t know me personally, I’m a Klamath Tribal Member, but I also ventured into farming. Well, I can’t make that claim any longer, since this will be the second year in a row that I’m not going to farm. What I desire more than anything — are solutions that will prevent our endangered fish species from going extinct, solutions that will save our fish and sustain agriculture, for regenerative agricultural practices to become part of the solution, and for our divided communities to heal and thrive.

Ed sort of figured out who I was after I stopped to ask him questions about burning vs. tilling, but I hadn’t realized that I also sort of knew who he was until after we had talked for a while. We just visited. We had a dialogue. We talked about the problems in Klamath County, about agriculture, about fish going extinct, about what could have been done differently in the past so that we wouldn’t still be in this situation, and we touched on racism and white privilege, and what that means to Ed. We just talked. Ed shared his knowledge with me, we laughed, and at times, I even got a little teary-eyed. I lost track of time. I don’t know if we talked for 20 minutes or if it was closer to an hour. Our conversation was honest, respectful, and at times, a difficult one. We started out talking farmer-to-farmer. Our conversation then evolved to one between a farmer-to-Indigenous woman+environmental & social justice activist. Eventually, our conversation evolved to a HUMAN-to-HUMAN conversation. We were having a dialogue. Together, we were dreaming of better days and better ways…to a future when we’re united, collaborating, and thriving.

Ed is right…open dialogue and actual human-to-human communication is critical to solving so many of our problems. He showed me right there, with calmness and serenity, just how much can happen when we have human-to-human dialogue.

I appreciated Ed’s time, knowledge, and conversation. If you’re from around here, know of our ongoing crisis, or know me personally, you understand the significance of our conversation. You also understand just how rare this sort of dialogue is, and just how much it’s needed. I stopped just to ask Ed a few farmer questions but left with so much more. Once again, a subject I met has refilled me with hope and optimism.

Nicole - 36

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “My dog!”

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “I’m a Grandmother of three.”

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: For the problem of racism, Nicole’s solution is, “killing people with kindness.”

Q: What’s your life’s dream/goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: “My dream is to be rich in love.” “I have Shawn,” Nicole added, when describing how she’s working towards it. (Remember VaShawn? You met him back in week three!)

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (personal legacy statement)

A: “I want to be remembered for always giving a helping hand, and as a great friend, mother, and girlfriend.”

Sincere appreciation to you - Joseph, Ed, and Nicole! Thank you!

Thanks for following along. Wishing you another great week, and some great dialogue. Let’s solve some problems together.

111 Faces of Klamath Falls - Photography Project, Week 6

February 14, 2021 Joey Gentry-Smith

Meet David, Jason and Luke - this week’s “faces of Klamath Falls.”

David - 16

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “Traveling with my family.”

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “I’m creative and artistic.”

Q: Do you have a life dream or goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: “To spend time with my family and see the world.”

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: “Don’t sweat the small stuff.’

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (Do you have a personal legacy statement?)

A: “I want to be remembered as a good father to my kids, and as a good husband to my wife.”

David is only the second subject, so far, who’s been a complete random stranger. We met at a vaccine clinic this week. Sort of an odd time and place for me to ask to take a person’s photograph, right? I just had to make use of the waiting period after we received our vaccines. David is an artist and he didn’t seem too phased, or too bothered, that I asked if he would be included in the project. I’m so glad he agreed! We didn’t have the most ideal lighting conditions…but we need to push ourselves in less-than-ideal conditions in order to learn and improve. (We’re already several people into this project, but I’m still making super beginner mistakes after having had such a long hiatus. It’s embarrassing and frustrating to be so rusty, but photography is something that we never stop learning.)

What do you think? Should I push myself even further and start approaching random strangers again? I absolutely loved that aspect of the last project. It’s no big deal approaching strangers in a bigger city, but I really don’t want to freak people out here by asking strangers if I can photograph them, so I’m a little hesitant. Talking with David reminded me that I enjoyed the challenging aspect of photographing strangers in the first project.

Jason - 17

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “My Dog.”

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “My sense of humor.”

Q: Do you have a life dream or goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: “To get as good at what I do as I possibly can.”

Jason was being pretty modest when he answered that his sense of humor is his great trait or accomplishment. He does have a great sense of humor, that part is true, but he’s also pretty special and has an incredible skill, gift, and/or talent. (I’m not even quite sure what to call it! It’s both an acquired & learned skill, but he also has a rare gift.) Jason does body and energy work on people and animals. He’s able to help heal injuries and release restricted movement using “manual and energy treatments such as myofascial release, and craniosacral and trigger point release techniques.”

A while back, I overheard a coffeeshop conversation in which a woman was telling another woman about a guy who had helped her with an injury. As I continued to eavesdrop, I realized they were talking about Jason!

I was hoping to be able to video a treatment session Jason was going to perform on a horse, but it just didn’t work out in time for this post. He intends to film a session soon, and when he does, I’ll be sure to share it with you. His work is something that one needs to experience, or see, in order to fully understand and appreciate.

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: “Listening.” Jason is hopeful that if people could just listen to each other and “hear the other side of the coin with open ears, we could get our country back.”

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (Do you have a personal legacy statement?)

A: “I would like to be remembered as white light.”

Luke - 18

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “Fishing brings me joy.”

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “I have a pretty good sense of humor. I can usually diffuse situations that are tense or awkward with humor.”

Another great accomplishment is that Luke has caught close to 600 different fish species. He’s in the top 20 fishermen/women worldwide, as far as the variety of fish species caught.

Q: Do you have a life dream or goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: “My life’s dream is to get a book published.”

Luke is so very close to realizing this dream! He’s already completed his first book and is currently just looking for a publisher! Luke also dreams of being able to write full time. (Wishing you the very best of luck and success, and that you find a publisher soon!)

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: Luke identified our current climate of polarization as being a big problem right now. His solution is for us to view and see people holistically, instead of pigeonholing people based on labels. Luke is optimistic that if we could view people for who they are, and seek common ground, there would be less hate and disagreements.

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (Do you have a personal legacy statement?)

A: “I would like to be remembered as someone that treated people with love, and that I helped them however they needed it.” Luke went on to explain that he hopes people will remember him as a person who gave them kindness and encouragement. “I hope people will be glad that we crossed paths,” Luke added.

This was the first time I had actually met Luke in person. He was, until this day, a stranger, but not a complete random stranger. We had pre-arranged our meet-up and his participation in the project. I have to confess…when Luke answered that he’s able to diffuse awkward or tense situations, my heart sank a little. I know this firsthand. My little lightbulb went off and I remembered that the whole reason that I know Luke, or know “of” Luke, is because of a tense and awkward situation.

Luke is the writer behind the weekly outdoors and fishing column, “Caught Ovgard.” (Luke’s column is published in our local newspaper and other Oregon and Washington papers.) A few years ago, I completely misunderstood the intent of one of Luke’s pieces. I think it may have been the first time I read his column. I don’t remember the exact timing, but I think the piece was published during a time when tensions were high here, due to drought and a stressful water year. I was concerned with a portion of the article about endangered species. What did I do about it? I mean-tweeted him! (I think that was my very first mean-tweet.) Luke could have easily ignored or dismissed me. Instead, Luke took the time to explain the full intent of his article and statement, and he did so with patience and a sincere desire for clarity and understanding. I also had a sincere desire to understand, and was open-minded enough to be receptive to his explanation. Now, fast-forward a few years, and I’ve become a fan and regular reader of Luke’s column! Luke’s writing is witty, funny, and informative! Even if you’re not into fishing, I know you’ll enjoy his column. (Also check out his blog/website to learn more!)

Luke, yes indeed! I will remember you as kind and encouraging, and I’m glad that we crossed paths.

David, Jason and Luke - thanks so much for being in this project!

Thank you for following along for another week!

111 Faces of Klamath Falls - Photography Project, Week 5

February 8, 2021 Joey Gentry-Smith

Hello!

Here’s three more Faces of Klamath Falls!

Flamingo Fred - 13

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “Peace and love, and childlike imagination”

I love this answer! Remember back to childhood…how uninhibited were you? I think of this often, especially when it comes to art, creating, or trying new things. “Pure joy as a child,” Fred reminisced about the way we approached life as kids.

I can remember when I got my first real camera a few years ago. I didn’t even know how to use it. It was an entry-level DSLR with a couple of kit lenses. I headed to a classic car junk yard and photographed for hours. In my adult life, my junkyard photoshoot was the closest thing to that childlike pure joy that Flamingo Fred was describing. (Ironically, some of those first photos were some of my best, even though I had no idea what I was doing, simply because I was in that state of pure childlike joy.) We were so bold as kids…we didn’t worry whether or not we would succeed at something, or how well we could perform, we just did it and we had so much fun in the process! I’m convinced that can we can bring ourselves so much joy and delight if we attempt to recapture that childlike imagination and pure joy in our lives and our pursuits.

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “I think I have the ability to put a smile on people’s faces.”

Q: Do you have a life dream or goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: My goal is to create beautiful things for the world, and to be free.”

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: “I think people should be inspired to do something nice for someone on a daily basis.”

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (Do you have a personal legacy statement?)

A: “I would like to be remembered as a person with a big heart and as a creative genius.”

I just had to get another one in here…I couldn’t decide which image I liked best!

Flamingo Fred is another new friend. I’ve learned from our work on the equity task force that he hopes to unite the citizens of Klamath Falls through arts and cultural events. He’s a man with brilliant ideas, and I have no doubt that had it not been for COVID, he would have succeeded in creating a few new community events that would have helped bring us together. During our little mini photoshoot, he even stopped to to talk with a property manager to inquire about renting a vacant space downtown. I CAN’T WAIT until the day comes when it’s safe for us to gather and dance and celebrate again! (Don’t you worry…Flamingo Fred is already cooking up some great ideas!)

If you want to learn more about Fred’s works and his creative genius, check out his youtube channel and his bandcamp!

Nicole - 14

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “That first sip of coffee in the morning is my favorite.”

Ahhhhh. Me too! Nicole said the first day of spring is a close second.

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “I just finished getting my Master’s degree!”

Not only did she earn her degree, but Nicole had to drive to Bend and back, a few times a week, to finish the program! (That’s 276 miles, roundtrip!) Nicole’s achievements and dedication are so impressive! (I’m so proud of you, Nicole!)

Q: Do you have a life dream or goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: “My life goal is to have my own private practice.” The next step toward achieving her goal is more clinical hours, and obtaining her LCSW.

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: This question gave Nicole considerable pause…solving problems is actually her career. “There are little problems in life all the time,” she remarked, as she considered her answer. “For the problem of work-life balance, I make sure that I pencil in time for myself every day.”

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (Do you have a personal legacy statement?)

A: “I want to be remembered as kind.”

Nicole is my niece. My biggest regret about moving away from home immediately after high school graduation is that I didn’t get to know my nieces and nephews, or my great nieces and nephews. I realized after our little photoshoot that this was the most time I had ever spent with Nicole. (Or at least the longest time we’ve spent together since we were kids.) Although I love my friends, I had the realization that I know my friends even more than I know my own family. Nicole, I’m looking forward to spending more time together. I love you.

Monica - 15

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “What brings me most delight is the innocence and the spirit of my brand new baby cousin, Levenza. Her spirit alone is so healing for my family. When she smiles, everyone just bursts with joy! She’s medicine and she doesn’t even know it.”

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “One of my greatest attributes is probably my commitment and my passion to help my community transcend historical trauma.” Monica added, “I’m fueled with a fire to change things and fix things and to just keep going…I appreciate that about myself.”

I recently had the opportunity to sit in on one of Monica’s cultural sensitivity training workshops that she presents to community businesses and organizations. Monica has single-handedly educated hundreds, if not thousands, of people about the history of the Klamath Tribes. Through her career and her personal dedication and passion, Monica is able to help individual Tribal Members heal generational and historical trauma. Educating the general community is an integral part in healing and uniting our entire community. Monica is a cycle-breaker and a peace-maker. She’s wise beyond her years and I’m amazed, humbled, and inspired by her every single day.

Q: Do you have a life dream or goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: “To become a kind, connected, and humorous Elder.” #lifegoals

Monica explained that those are the attributes of her favorite Elders, from whom she’s learned the most. Monica added that she aspires to be kind, patient, loving and funny. “I’m not scared to get old, I’m embracing eldership.” Realistically, life expectancy for Indigenous people is shorter than average. Monica embraces the prospect of aging and looks forward to making it to the position of Elder, and she hopes that she can earn and hold that position of honor by our community.

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: For all problems, “when in doubt, call Mom!” “A Mother’s love is our greatest armor against everything,” Monica added.

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (Do you have a personal legacy statement?)

A: “I would like to be remembered as an Indigenous woman who did more walking than talking, and who had more action than anything.”

Monica, I can’t think of anything that more accurately describes how I and others see you. You are absolutely incredible and it’s pretty awesome seeing you work…seeing your action. You’re an inspiration to all.

Monica also produces a big community culture event called “Restoration of the Spirit.” The event is hosted by the Tribe and the entire community is invited. We didn’t get to have an event this year due to COVID, but when it’s safe to gather again, it’s a MUST-ATTEND event! When that time comes, I hope you’ll attend and witness Monica’s work - you will indeed see that she’s an Indigenous woman of action. She does more walking than talking. She is a ripple of change and healing for us all.

Thank you Flamingo Fred, Nicole, and Monica!

We’re only 15 people in to the project and I’m already inspired by the depth of our community. We have beautiful people here, who aspire to do beautiful things in our community and in life. These are our friends, our neighbors, our family members, and our co-workers. It’s my sincere hope and dream that Klamath Falls can someday heal that which divides us. Only 15 people in, and I’m so filled with hope and optimism that someday soon, that will be a reality.

Thanks for stopping by!

111 Faces of Klamath Falls - Photography Project, Week 4

January 31, 2021 Joey Gentry-Smith

Laty - 10

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “Just being alive! Just being Present!” Laty explained that he finds delight in a lot of things right now. In a time in our lives when everything is uncertain and often pretty dark, Laty is filled with gratitude and optimism.

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “I’m a person of action!” Laty explained that once he has his mind set, he gives it 150%. “I don’t half-ass stuff!” “I go above and beyond.”

Q: Do you have a life dream or goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: This was the greatest non-answer ever…and I hope it’s an indication that Laty’s life is happy and fulfilled. Laty explained that he was just contemplating this question the night before. Laty doesn’t really have a life goal right now, but he wants to think of something meaningful so that he can work towards achieving a goal.

Please don’t misunderstand this answer…Laty has his hands full as a business owner of one of Klamath’s most loved restaurants, Thai Orchid, and he’s involved in more community committees than I can even remember! He’s a kind, caring person who’s making a difference in our community at so many different levels.

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: “The solution for so many problems…THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK!”

Thank you, Laty! I so needed to hear this reminder right now! Laty and I had a conversation about the pressures that we’re all under right now. “I hit a pandemic wall,” Laty explained.

We’ve all been in survival and self-preservation mode for months. We’re exhausted. We’ve never had to navigate a global pandemic before, and we’re finding ourselves in situations that would have been unimaginable just a year ago. Personally, I’ve never been more on-edge than I’ve found myself lately. I’m finding that even the most optimistic, easy-going, and go-with-the-flow people I know, have hit that wall within the last month or two. It’s manifesting in different ways for each of us. “If we can just think before we react,” Laty counseled. I can’t even imagine Laty being a person who needs to carefully choose his words or his actions and reactions, because his nature is just so good, kind, and thoughtful. I must confess - it’s a bit reassuring to know that even someone as amazing as Laty has to remind himself to think before he speaks.

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (Do you have a personal legacy statement?)

A: “I want to be remembered as someone who was true to themselves, that I have sass and personality, and someone who was just colorful and positive.”

If you’ve ever met Laty, even just once, you would agree that he’s all of this and more! (A kind, caring, giving person who’s working to create a great community for us all!)

If you’ve hit that pandemic wall, know that you’re not alone. This is worth repeating - if you need help or support, please reach out to friends, family, or a professional.

Jonathan - 11

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “I enjoy reading, recreational activities, engaging with the community, and discussing issues that affect everybody.”

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “I’ve had the chance to work with great students and organizers in the the Klamath Basin.” Jonathan is a teacher, and also one of those great organizers in our community!

Q: Do you have a life dream or goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: “I’d like to continue to organize for progressive goals in our area, and continue researching for my academic work.”

I can't predict the future, but we can be certain that Jonathan is dedicated to achieving progress that will benefit our entire community. I'm positive that Jonathan will help us to progress. Keep your eyes out for good things to come!

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: “We need a new deal for rural areas to address poverty, work/employment opportunities, and that will encourage a strong sense of empathy for people with differing socioeconomic backgrounds, and provide for the greater good for all.”

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (Do you have a personal legacy statement?)

A: “That I continued to grow in teaching and academics, and that I tried to do the most good for people and society.”

Jonathan is another new friend but in the short time I've known him, I know that he's sincere and authentic in his desire to bring about positive change for our community.

Michael - 12

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “Being.”

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “That’s not up to me to determine. I don’t have an opinion.”

Q: Do you have a life dream or goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: “I just am.”

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: “Self Reference.”

I asked Michael for clarification, "does that mean that we create our own problems, and that we are also the solution?” Michael responded with a smile, "think about it..."

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (Do you have a personal legacy statement?)

A: “I don’t have any desire to be remembered.”

I actually swapped the order of the subjects from last week and this week, so my memory isn’t as fresh as it should be, and I’m depending on the notes scribbled in my journal. I know I'm failing to adequately recall and recount my conversation with Michael.

Let me just tell you a little more about him. Michael isn't one of those people who knows a little about a lot…It seems like he knows just about everything about everything!!! (And I know he'd disagree with my assessment of him.) The second time I met Michael, at the Klamath Tool Library, our conversation was so in depth, he had to send me on my way with HOMEWORK! He’s helped me so many times that I’ve lost count. Do you know about the Klamath Tool Library? It’s an actual “library” of tools. For a small annual fee, you can “check out” any tool they offer for up to two weeks at a time. I utilized the Tool Library to borrow tools for farm projects, and would end up staying as long as they would let me, just absorbing knowledge from Michael and the other volunteers who happened to be there at the time. I learned a lot about soil, compositing, gardening, and farming from Michael. He’s one of those people who can explain complex material in such a way that you can understand it, even if you’re brand new to the subject matter.

Every time that I’ve ever interacted with Michael, I’ve left him having learned something new. I anticipated that he’d have some great answers to these interview questions, so I was caught off guard when he provided "vague" answers. Michael completely flipped the script and had me contemplating not only these questions, but my entire project! (But in a good way.)

After we finished the interview, I explained that I want these to be positive questions, resulting in positive answers, and remarked about his short answers. I want the the subjects to be able to highlight themselves. I like that people get to shine the spotlight on themselves, and it is my hope that subjects leave our experience together feeling a bit happier.

Michael understood my intent, but he’s at a different point, perhaps more enlightened, than I am presently. Michael remarked, “ego is an artificial construct…our personalities just get us through this space time continuum.” Michael knew the type of answers for which I was hoping, but by answering the way he did, less was more. Michael explained, “the individual is a reflection of the community.” I added that the reverse is also true, “the community is a reflection of the individual.” Michael’s final words to me were, “our identity is a reflection of unity…identity is in our unity.” Wow! My mind was spinning after this.

I left Michael questioning everything, and when I question things, I can over-think to the point of giving myself doubt. I questioned why am I even doing this project? Is it as simple as that this project gives me a “gym” where I can exercise my photography muscles? Why do I ask the subjects these particular questions? Are these questions providing any worth or value to the subjects? Do the subjects feel better when they get to talk about themselves, their dreams, their great traits, and the things that bring them delight? Is this an ego thing…for both myself and the subjects? Does any of this matter? Will any of this matter? Is this a pointless vanity project? I know Michael didn’t intend to cause me to doubt this project. He wanted me to dig deeper.

If the individual is a reflection of the community, than I am seeking to learn about our community by learning about “111 Faces” within that community. In learning about our community and the individuals in this community, I’m learning about myself. (this is a worthwhile pursuit.)

If there’s anything I’ve learned from Michael from the interactions we’ve had so far…it’s that I have so much to learn. (and I'm going to keep on doing that!)

Thank you Laty, Jonathan, and Michael, for being in this project, and for all the work you do for our community!

Thanks for reading!

111 Faces of Klamath Falls - Photography Project, Week 3

January 24, 2021 Joey Gentry-Smith

Hello!

Meet Sam, Sunshine, and VaShawn - the next three subjects in the 111 Faces of Klamath Falls project.

Sam - 7

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “Music!”

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “I’m pretty good at learning things.”

Q: Do you have a life dream or goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: “I would like to create interactive media that teaches people things about themselves.”

Sam spoke passionately about this, to the point that I couldn’t even keep up with him - both intellectually, and with my note-taking! He summarized this concept to me as succinctly as possible and described his idea as a “VR empathy machine.” Sam is working toward this dream by pursuing a degree and learning all aspects of digital media, digital design, and emerging media.”

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: Sam would like to solve the problem of a lack of critical thinking and rational thought. Sam explained that in our current world, our ability to form our own individual thoughts and opinions is declining. He sees value in critical thinking so that people have the ability to form an opinion that wasn’t fed to them by someone else.

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (Do you have a personal legacy statement?)

A: “I don’t even care if I’m remembered, “ Sam laughed, as he answered this question. After some thought, he added, “I just want the world to be a better place.”

Sunshine - 8

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “People showing love to each other.”

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “I absolutely love my job! It’s my reigning passion, and I’m fed by it every day!”

Sunshine is an occupational therapist assistant. She opted to be photographed in her mask, as it’s part of our current time in history and it’s life right now. It was important for her to find a translucent mask to wear on the job, so that her patients could still see her smiling face.

Q: Do you have a life dream or goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: “My life goal is to make change in the dementia treatment realm.” Sunshine is furthering her education and is in pursuit of her masters.

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: Sunshine explained that her idea for a solution to help our economy and job creation, is to improve our medical and social services infrastructure & systems so that everyone in this country has access to: medical care, social care, mental health care, and companionship for those who are isolated. If everyone had access to this care, rather than drain our economy, it would increase and stabilize our economy.

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (Do you have a personal legacy statement?)

A: “That I left the place better than I found it.”

I’ve only known Sunshine for a few months now, but I’m certain that she leaves everyone she meets, better than how she found them. (Myself included.) I’ve observed Sunshine, on numerous occasions, as she interacts with homeless people in our community. She gives them respect, compassion, and love…and if she can help them in some way more than that, she does. Sunshine’s love is strong, as strong as her desire and pursuit of social justice and change in our community. She is fierce in both her love of people, and as a social justice warrior. Indeed, you will be remembered as one who left this place better than you found it.

VaShawn - 9

Q: What’s something that brings you delight?

A: “My Daughters!”

Q: What’s something great about yourself? (a trait or accomplishment)

A: “I was born,” VaShawn said jokingly, before answering, “I have 3 beautiful daughters, and I’m a damn good driver and tow truck operator.”

Q: Do you have a life dream or goal, and how are you working towards it?

A: My goal is to have my own transport truck. VaShawn is working towards his goal by flipping cars.

Q: Is there a problem for which you have a solution?

A: “The problem is the racism that happens in this town, and that nothing happens about it. The solution is - to leave!”

VaShawn’s response is heart-breaking. I’m sad to find out that VaShawn has decided to move.

I wanted this to be a positive project, and this answer is not a positive outcome to the problem that exists here. Life isn’t always positive…no matter how optimistic we are. VaShawn’s voice needs to be heard. Racism is a serious issue here, and one that needs to be addressed, so I didn’t try to sway VaShawn to answer differently. VaShawn is also a friend, and our community has failed him. I’m sad and I’m angry to learn that VaShawn has decided to move.

VaShawn is a new friend. We met this summer at the first Black Lives Matter protest in our small rural town. Klamath Falls made national news when Black Lives Matter protesters were met with armed counter-protesters and “patriots.” The Black Lives Matter protesters were friends and neighbors, students and teachers, parents and children…and they were met with armed counter-protesters who believed a dumb rumor that bus loads of Antifa were headed to Klamath Falls to cause destruction. VaShawn was actually the first person I met and talked with at the afternoon BLM protest. (It was the later evening protest where Klamath citizens armed themselves against BLM protesters.)

Although the armed response by our community was unimaginable and unacceptable, something good did come from that horrible night. It was a clear tipping point for our community. Our town could no longer hide or deny our problem with racism.

The Klamath Falls City Council formed an Equity Task Force, in part, as a response to the armed counter-protesters. The first order of business for the Equity Task Force - we asked for our city to pass a resolution declaring racism a public health crisis.

VaShawn gave compelling public testimony to our City Council, sharing his lived experiences with racism in Klamath. I won’t go into specific detail regarding the incidents that I know VaShawn has experienced, because I didn’t ask him if I could share that here on the blog. VaShawn’s public testimony just scratched the surface of his experiences here. VaShawn shared that he has twice experienced blatant racism at two separate places of employment. There was ZERO problem resolution when VaShawn notified his employers of the incidents. VaShawn left both jobs. Although VaShawn’s compelling testimony prompted a personal apology from our Mayor, our City Council still wouldn’t pass the resolution to declare racism either a “public health crisis,” or a “societal crisis.”

Eventually, the city council did pass a re-written/re-worded and slightly diluted resolution that condemns racism and recognizes the individual, societal, and economic harm caused by racism. Equity will now be a guiding principle in all decision-making and policy. This is still major progress for Klamath Falls, and I know that VaShawn’s testimony was a contributing factor in the Council’s decision to approve the modified equity resolution. It’s still a win, but sadly, that victory it is too little, and too late, for VaShawn.

I’m sad for VaShawn. I’m sad he feels his only option is to move. The exodus of Black, Indigenous, and People of Color from our community is absolutely not the solution to the problem of racism here. VaShawn made an impact by sharing his personal lived experiences. We can do better as a community. VaShawn, I’m sorry you’ve experienced this in Klamath Falls. We will continue the fight for progress, equality, opportunity, and for a safe and equitable community for all. Thank you for your friendship, your strength, and your protection. You helped our community in your job, I’m just so sad that our community didn’t help you in return.

Best wishes for happiness and success…and for your own transport truck.

Q: How would you like to be remembered? (Do you have a personal legacy statement?)
A: “I want to be remembered as being happy and always smiling.” VaShawn added, “I try to keep a smile on my face, regardless of what I’m going through.”

I will remember you as someone who was always happy, and always had a kind word. You will be missed when you move.

Sam, Sunshine, and VaShawn - thank you for letting me take your picture for this project! And thank you for reading along.

See you next week!

I'm back! Happy New Year!

January 2, 2021 Joey Gentry-Smith

Happy New Year!!!

Yes, it’s been a while since my last post. I’m still here! The stories I could share…where do we even begin?

Let’s start with this post. This post isn’t about New Year’s Resolutions, or “New Year, New Me.” This post is a clumsy first step. I’ve been stuck…stuck in ways that I never imagined for myself. Until recently, I could always un-stuck myself, but this time was different. Finally, I’m “writing it down, and writing it out,” here with you, because writing is the one thing that ALWAYS works for me. You’re reading this now because I’m finally un-stucking myself.

I want to create again! I’m ready to create again! I NEED to create again! This first-step post is also to tell you that I’m going to start another photography project soon. Before I can start something new, I owe you an explanation as to what happened with the first project and what I’ve been up to the past 4 years. I’d like to keep this first-step post short, so I’ll summarize for now.

I successfully completed the 1,111 day photo project, but clearly, there are a few hundred photos/subjects that remain unpublished. The fact that I didn’t publish the entire project has been a dark little cloud looming overhead, but the truth is…nobody really cares about that except me. (And the people & subjects who’ve DM’d me just to make sure that I’m still alive. Thank you for that. And I’m sorry for ghosting. )

The short answer is that my life flipped in July of 2016. My mom had complications from a back surgery, and I found myself commuting from Portland to Klamath Falls every weekend to look in on her. I maintained that schedule for over a year - driving the 10 hour round trip when weather permitted, and taking the train during winter. (which could often be over 14+ hours, round trip.) It became clear that my mom needed me, and that I could no longer sustain that schedule, so I had leave my job, of over 20 years, in Portland and move back to my hometown of Klamath Falls.

I never wanted to move back to my hometown, but my mom needed me. Job opportunities are limited in Klamath Falls. I can be quite the lemonade-maker, and life had provided an abundance of lemons, so I thought I could make the best of it by making the investment to create my own opportunity - I became a hemp farmer! I met one of my business partners because he was a random subject in the 1,111 day photo project! Meeting him, combined with my mom’s failed back surgery, changed the trajectory of my entire life.

As far as the first photo project, I simply ran out of time. I was successful in taking a photo every single day for 1,111 days…but between the crazy year I spent commuting + working full time + shooting for Vortex Music Magazine, and then starting a new farming venture, I simply ran out of gas. There just wasn’t enough time in the day, and I was physically depleted. When I started farming, I was so tired that some days I didn’t even have the energy left at the end of the day to clean the manure off my boots!!! I stopped blogging and publishing the photos and never made the time to go back and publish them. It is as simple and as complicated as that.

There’s just so much I want to share with you about my experience farming hemp, but that’ll come later. Someday. Maybe. It was a lot of lesson-learning the hard way. Here’s the part where I got stuck. I didn’t do a grow in 2020. I didn’t completely make the decision not to grow until shortly before COVID hit. My soul was crushed. My soul is still crushed. I won’t grow in 2021, and most likely, I won’t ever grow again. I’m also mourning loss…losses in so many different forms.

Remember when the COVID shelter-in-place/“lockdowns” first started? It seemed like we would only be home-confined for a few weeks, maybe a month or two at the most, and then we’d be able to “flatten the curve,” right? I intended to use that “downtime,” which came at such a terrible price, to take care of all of our business, finally catch up and blog/publish all of the remaining photos from the first project, and then I would find a job and figure out what to do with the rest of my life. BUT - I got paralyzed! I’ve been paralyzed for months. I don’t know what the hell happened!?! I’ve been working since I was a teenager. I love to work! The busier I am, the better I am! Bring it on!!! I want to do it all!! But something happened…or didn’t happen. I found myself unable to do anything. Instead of cutting myself some slack by recognizing the constraints of COVID, understanding the limited job market, surviving the current state of our country and planet, and allowing myself space to grieve, process, and heal from what I’ve experienced the past four years, I came down hard on myself. I need to start writing and photographing again because it will help me fix the other parts of my life that are out of alignment. Activity breeds activity.

NOTE: I absolutely understand the severity and dire circumstances of COVID. Please do not misunderstand my desire to make personal progress for me being a science-denying, “open the country” type person. My heart is broken for humanity.

It was messy, but a dear friend helped me realize last week that I had basically hit bottom. I had lost my optimism, lost my positivity, lost my ability to see my way out of difficult situations, I was lying to myself and making things worse, and it was time for that to end. Here we are. First step.

My next project doesn’t yet have a name and I haven’t yet determined my objective with it. The next project won’t be a daily photo challenge, but it will be a similar format, but with different questions. The next project starts with this post…the post letting you know that I’m sorry I didn’t publish the entirety of the first project, but it’s time to start something new.

These are difficult, painful, uncertain times. I recognize that. I respect that. I mourn for our country, our world, our planet, and for humanity. Even though we’re living with all of this heaviness, I’ve also realized that it’s time that I take this first step to reenter the world and start living again. (safely, socially distanced, and masked, of course.)

So, hello! I’m back!

If you’re suffering during these times, please don’t remain silent and don’t suffer alone. Seek help and support from friends, family, or professionals. Please just take the first step.

365 More People Pictures - Week 24

January 25, 2015 Joey Gentry-Smith

Hello! Thank you for checking out week 24 of the 365 More People Pictures project!

Remember, if you'd like to follow along daily on Instagram, my username is: @missellanea.

Day 161 - Garret & Bella

This is Garret & Bella.

I waited until after the game to go out in search of a subject and I knew it was going to be a challenge to find someone in downtown Vancouver. Everyone would be at home or in a bar celebrating the Seahawks NFC Championship win! After wandering around for a while, I finally spotted Garret. Ok, really, I spotted Bella and after admiring her, I noticed she also had a nice-looking human at the end of her leash.

The happiest thing happening in Garret's life right now is that he's moving to Austin soon! He's transferring there for his work.

I asked Garret if he's recently performed an act of kindness or if he's been on the receiving end of an act of kindness. Garret's first visit to Austin left him feeling like he's been on the receiving end of kindness. Garret said that in Austin, you can be walking down the street and people will greet you and ask how you are, and they really mean it! They have a genuine interest in how you're doing. Garret feels like he's already made friends there.

"Try everything once," Garret answered, when I asked if he has a personal mission statement or life's purpose.

When I asked Garret something about himself which he considers to be a success, he answered that it was the advancements that he's made at his job. Garret started from the bottom and worked his way up. He said he started, literally, sweeping floors, and now he's made such progress, his employer is transferring him to Texas! Way to go, Garret! Wishing you luck and success in Austin!

I was bummed about the pictures. I had two adorable subjects, but just didn't manage to show you that. One downside of this project is that because the original challenge was to have a continuous 365 day streak of taking a picture of a person, every single day, I ~~sometimes~~ often end up posting pictures that I don't love. Garett is quite good-looking, almost strikingly so, but I failed at conveying that to you.

There have been times I've felt like I've done a bad job of conveying a person's something-special. Sometimes, I even manage to make a very attractive person look less-attractive than what they really are.

What I learned in the workshop I attended a couple weekends ago, is that we shouldn't show our "bad" pictures to the world. When I start a new project or new blog, I will do just that. It will be a carefully and deliberately selected collection of images and I will only show, what I think, is my best work. This project/challenge is a little unique, however, because of the added pressure to go for a continuous 365 Day Streak. In order to maintain the streak, I've had to share "reality" with you. I've had to share that some days I can do better than others. You've seen my entire one-step-forward-two-steps-back process. Although I cringe when I have to post something I don't love, for now, it's ok. It's like you're right along with me and helping me through the learning process.

Day 162 - Bob

This is Bob.

"This...just getting my picture taken," Bob said, when I asked the happiest thing happening in his life right now. Bob actually has some exiting things happening as he's getting a re-start in life.

I asked Bob if he's recently performed an act of kindness and he said that he had just given money to a street kid at a bus stop downtown.

Bob didn't have a personal mission statement but he's definitely a man on a mission! Bob wants to be healed enough to start his job search and start working a new job, and then when he finds a new job, he wants to buy a car. Bob then joked that when he's accomplished that, "then, I'll be looking for a woman." I liked Bob so much, I called my Mom after meeting him and told her that if she moved up here, I'd "allow" her to date Bob.

When I asked Bob something about himself which he considers to be a success, he answered, "raising 5 kids, pretty much, successfully." When I questioned his use of the phrase, "pretty much," Bob explained that he had a Son whose life was way too short. He died at age 27, but it was 27 years longer than they expected. His son battled for his life since birth and they didn't know if he'd even make it out of the hospital when he was born. Bob's son spent quite a while in the hospital. Bob and his wife lived close to an hour away from the hospital and Bob would work all day, then he and his wife would drive into Portland, in his old truck, and stay with his Son as long as they could before going home and repeating the journey again the next day. Looking back, they didn't know how they did it but they just made it through.

Thank you for sharing yourself, Bob. Wishing you good health and good luck on your job, car and lady search.

Day 163 - Heath

This is Heath. He had barely parked his bike and taken off his helmet when I approached to ask if I could take his picture.

"My relationship is so good...my life is really good," Heath answered, when I asked the happiest thing happening in his life right now.

Heath's recent act of kindness is that he helped a woman to expand her non-profit organization by networking and connecting her with a friend. Way to go, Heath!

When I asked Heath if he has a personal mission statement, he answered that he has a personal outlook which he adheres to - "to be grateful for what I have." Heath then remarked that he feels like he has a lot for which to be grateful! I mentioned to Heath that what little I've read about positivity and the laws of attraction, is that the simple act of gratitude attracts even more abundance. When we appreciate and are grateful for what we have, we attract even more for which to be grateful. Heath said it's working!

When I asked Heath something about himself which he considers to be a success, he explained that he's overcome failures and instead of creating barriers, he's opened new doors.

Thank you, Heath!

Day 164 - Sheari

This is Sheari. We met at the bus stop. Sheari was so sweet. We weren't quite finished with the interview when the bus arrived but Sheari decided to skip that bus and just catch the next one. I couldn't believe that she was willing to do that! I'm glad she did though, she was a genuinely kind person and I'm glad we met.

The happiest thing happening in Sheari's life right now is that she's about to move to LA!

When I asked Sheari if she's recently performed an act of kindness, she explained that she works in social services. Sheari's life is devoted to serving others. It's her hope that when she moves to LA, she'll be able to work with and serve the people who need it most - skid row.

"To leave the world a little bit better than I came into it," Sheari answered, when I asked if she has a personal mission statement. You're already doing that, Sheari!

When I asked Sheari something about herself which she would consider to be a success, she answered, "my independence." Sheari left her small town and her Country to pursue her passion helping others.

Thank you, Sheari! You're making a difference.

Day 165 - Jules

This is Jules.

He was part of a crew filming near my work. I was a little nervous about marching onto a set to see if I could find someone to be in the project, but since they were taking up practically an entire block, they couldn't expect that people wouldn't need to walk through the area. Remembering that I had just spent an entire weekend learning to be more confident, I decided to just go for it! Plus, I was hoping they were filming Grimm and that I'd get a glimpse of some of the action. (Jules told me it was a commercial but considering the huge production, I wonder if he was just telling me that to keep things a bit of a secret.)

When I asked Jules the happiest thing happening in his life right now, he answered, "my career is picking up!"

Jules' recent act of kindness is that he gave a friend her big break by getting her into the industry.

Jules' personal mission statement is: "Work to learn. Learn to play. Play to live."

When I asked Jules something about himself which he would consider to be a success, he answered, "my community." Jules clarified, his community of friends.

Jules has a really good squinch! It was actually cool to look back through the photos and see what a difference it made when he squinched. I gave up trying to direct everyone to squinch because it's really hard, and some people just can't do it at first. And, often times we would end up laughing so much that it became a distraction. But, I could tell Jules had squinch in him. I didn't even have to go through the whole spiel about a squinch. I think Jules must have heard of it before because all I had to do was demonstrate a squinch, and ask him to raise just his lower eye-lids, but not to the point where he would look like he was glaring or mad at me. He nailed it! I love it when I'm able to contribute some direction because then it feels like we actually created the image together. I didn't take a picture, we created it.

Thank you, Jules.

Day 166 - Shawn

This is Shawn. We also met at the bus stop.

"I have a really good job that I like," Shawn answered, when I asked the happiest thing happening in his life right now. In a really strange coincidence, Shawn and Sheari are co-workers! The world is definitely getting smaller.

Shawn's recent act of kindness was a bit of a surprise. Shawn recently put out a fire on the patio of a bar/restaurant! The bucket they have set out for cigarette butts caught on fire. He explained this was the second time he had seen this happen there, so he was calm and knew exactly what to do.

Shawn's personal mission statement is a quote by Kurt Vonnegut: "The wreckers against the builders, there's the whole story of life."

When I asked Shawn something about himself which he would consider to be a success, he answered, "I'm legitimately happy." Shawn recognizes that he truly happy with life and knows that not many people can say that.

I was so glad to have met both Shawn and Sheari. They work for an organization which I've intended to check out for a few years and after meeting them both in a matter of a few days, I've recognized it as a sign that I need to attend and participate in some of the community events they offer. Meeting Shawn was also like meeting a friend who I should have had in my life all along.

Thank you, Shawn!

Day 167 - Tabatha

This is Tabatha. She was on break from her job inside the mall when I approached to ask if I could take her picture.

"I got a job," Tabatha answered enthusiastically, when I asked the happiest thing happening in her life right now.

When I asked Tabatha if she's recently performed an act of kindness or if she's been on the receiving end of an act of kindness, she said that she's been on the receiving end of kindness. Tabatha explained that she's received a lot of help from her friends recently; one friend is letting her stay at their house, and another friend got her the job she has now. I hoped to encourage her a little by telling her that her friend must believe in her to recommend her for a job. I have no doubt Tabatha is doing great, judging from as much enthusiasm and appreciation she has for her job.

"I want to do good and help others," Tabatha answered, when I asked if she has a personal mission statement. Tabatha then asked me if that's what everyone says. Everything else aside, no matter how the words are packaged, the answer is yes. One of the most common objectives of everyone in this project boils down to this one statement. We are all the same - we want to do good and help others. We're all connected in this way.

When I asked Tabatha something about herself which she would consider to be a success, she answered, "I'm very family oriented. I'm the glue that holds my family together." Wishing you and your family lots of love and happiness. It's a tough job, being glue.

Thank you, Tabatha.

Here's the summary of the personal mission statements and life's purposes of the subjects from this week:

Try everything once.
To be grateful for what I have.
To leave the world a little bit better than I came into it.
Work to learn. Learn to play. Play to live.
"The wreckers against the builders, there's the whole story of life."
I want to do good and help others.

Thank you for following along another week, and thank you to every subject in this project. If you'd like a copy of your picture, please don't hesitate to email me.

Thank you!

365 More People Pictures - Week 21

January 4, 2015 Joey Gentry-Smith

Happy New Year! We're finished with week 21!

I'm excited to tell you that I'm finally taking a real photography class next weekend! Well, it's not even really a "class." It's more like a life-changing opportunity to learn from one of the greats!

It's pretty intimidating, actually. Instead of wading in gradually, I'm diving in head-first and will attend a workshop being taught by Eric Kim. Eric Kim is one of the most well-known street photographers and bloggers in the world.

I'm nervous and intimidated because I'm lacking in some very basic skills. It's like taking a cooking class from Gordon Ramsay when you've never learned how to boil an egg, slice tomatoes properly, or make gravy. The beautiful thing about Eric Kim, is that he is as much a teacher as he is a photographer and writer. He has a genuine desire to teach anyone who has a genuine desire to learn.

I'm looking forward to expanding my mind and my skills, and sharing with you soon.

Day 140 - Christie

This is Christie. We met at the bus stop at the Mall.

The happiest thing happening in Christie's life right now is her work on a documentary film about Portland in the 70's, the music scene back then, and the murder of the father of her daughter. A documentary sounds like such a challenging undertaking and I can't wait till it's finished.

I asked Christie if she's recently performed an act of kindness and she explained that she helped a woman and her son get off the streets and into a home.

Christie's life's purpose right now is, "to reach people for Jesus, finish the movie, and singing."

When I asked Christie something about herself which she considers to be a success, she answered, "I'm a survivalist."

Thank you, Christie! Looking forward to seeing you you push your film through to fruition, and wishing you success!

Day 141 - Alex

This is Alex. We met just walking down the street together.

"My job," Alex answered, when I asked the happiest thing happening in his life right now.

Alex's recent act of kindness is one that he performs at least once per week. He sees an elderly homeless lady frequently, and at least one time per week, he gives her $5. She always thanks him and tells him it will help with her electric bill.

Alex's life's purpose is "to find happiness, be open to all types of people, and to be a good person in general."

I asked Alex something about himself which he considers to be a success and he answered, "my work ethic." Alex went on to explain he inherited it from his father, who inherited it from his father. We talked about how our parents can have such a strong influence on our work ethic and explained I also inherited my work ethic from my Mom, who never called in sick. Alex is 2.5 years into his apprenticeship program to become an electrician and he's not called in sick once.

Alex, thank you!

Day 142 - Bradina

This is Bradina. We met on the sidewalk. When I approached Bradina to ask if I could take her picture, she agreed, but then got this look on her face like, why did I just say yes? She explained she just got off work from her job as a dog groomer. I know I wouldn't feel at all camera-ready after having bathed just my one dog. She had been grooming dogs all day, so I appreciate her willingness to let me take her picture even after such a hard day's work.

When I asked Bradina about the happiest thing happening in her life right now, she said it was a hard question to answer. When people say that, it's usually for only two reasons - either life is so great that they can't choose the happiest thing happening in their lives, or the other reason is that life isn't so perfect right now. Bradina paused and then answered, "I have a job and a home, and it's my birthday tomorrow."

Bradina's recent act of kindness is that she had just alerted a woman driving by that her tire was flat. It had just happened. Bradina heard a noise and then saw the woman's flattened tire.

When I asked Bradina if she had a personal mission statement or life's purpose, she wasn't able to give an answer, saying "it's a dilemma of mine, currently." We circled back to the question at the end and she answered that her purpose in life is, "raising my son to be a loving and caring gentleman." Something tells me she's already doing a great job of that.

"I made a career for myself," Bradina answered, when I asked something about herself which she considers to be a success. Brandina said that she hadn't imagined herself becoming a dog groomer. She started out assisting and bathing dogs, and then discovered that she has a natural talent for grooming.

Thank you, Bradina! Happy Birthday!

Day 143 - Ian

This is Ian. He was in a bit of a hurry, but stopped long enough to let me take his picture for the project. It was also freezing! I like this picture because it makes Ian look badass. As I was about to take the picture, Ian asked, "do I have to smile?" I told him he didn't have to smile if he didn't want to. This may be his tough-guy look and I know I'm blowing his cover - but in real life, he was about as sweet as could be.

I asked Ian the happiest thing happening in his life right now and he said, "I just proposed to my girlfriend...and she said yes!" They were just engaged about a week prior.

Ian's recent act of kindness is that he gave money to a homeless person.

"Do the best you can and try not to hurt anyone while you're doing it," Ian answered, when I asked if he had a personal mission statement or life's purpose.

"Getting the girl in my life," Ian said, is something about himself which he considers to be a success. Awwww. Wishing you and your fiancé the very best!

Day 144 - Curtis

This is Curtis. We met at the little park along the Columbia River. Although it was cold, it was a beautiful day and I was surprised to see so many people starting out their new year strolling along the riverfront in the cold.

When I spotted Curtis and approached him to ask if I could take his picture for the project, he agreed without hesitation.

I asked Curtis the happiest thing happening in his life right now and he said, "to live to see another year, good health, and to be in retirement." Curtis went on to say that he's just so thankful for a lot of things in his life.

Curtis told me that he had come to the river to think about things and sort a few things out in his mind. Curtis was concerned that he couldn't articulate an answer as well as he would have liked. I could tell his mind was elsewhere and I explained to Curtis that I totally understand the feeling...I retreat to the trails/lakes/rivers myself, and I know how jolting it can be when you're deep in thought and then a person comes along and you have to force yourself to come back to the present moment and interact. I was happy Curtis shared a little of his time with me.

I asked Curtis if he's recently performed an act of kindness or if he's been on the receiving end of an act of kindness. Curtis said he's a giver -he helps his friends, family, kids and grandkids, and his ex-wife.

When I asked Curtis if he had a personal mission statement or life's purpose, he answered that his mission is, "to be rich and pass wealth onto my children and grandchildren so they don't have to struggle the way I did, and so they can become contributors and not takers." I could see love manifesting in physical form, right before my eyes. At that moment, I could see in Curtis' expression just how much love and hope he had for his children and grandchildren. It was as though I could see the love he had for his family, and the dreams he has for them, spill from his heart to become revealed by the look on his face and the sparkle in his eyes. I could just feel the love he has for his family.

Something about himself which Curtis considers to be a success, is that he's successfully raised three daughters who have all three graduated college, are married and raising families of their own, and he has a son who is still in college now. Curtis went on to remark just how good his daughters were growing up, and how he never had to worry about them being "renegades." They were good girls and didn't get into any trouble. I had to hide the tears that were forming in my eyes. I was wondering about Curtis' kids, and hoping they knew how very much their father loved them.

After we finished with the picture and interview, I thanked Curtis for letting me interrupt him and for being in the project. I commented that he picked a great spot to come and gather his thoughts. I love this spot on the river - you can stand on the Washington side of the river and look across to the Oregon side, and soothing action is all around you...planes, trains, automobiles, and boats. Somehow, instead of being overwhelmed by all of the movement; cars driving across the bridge, planes flying overhead, trains pounding down the rails, the river flowing by and transporting boats along with it, you can find peace there.

I hoped Curtis was able to sort out whatever was on his mind. After leaving him, I was struck with the thought that Curtis has already passed on immeasurable wealth to his family in the way he gives them his love.

Day 145 - Chris

This is Chris. We met at one of my favorite trails. Chris was about to unload his mountain bike and hit the trail when I approached to ask if I could take his picture for the project. Chris agreed, and then laughed a little, explaining that he had just come from a dentist appointment and his mouth was still numb. We took a few pictures so I could make sure I got one where he looked most natural, and not like he had just come from the dentist.

The happiest thing happening in Chris life right now is, "going to college."

I asked Chris if he's recently performed an act of kindness or if he's been on the receiving end of an act of kindness. Of course, Christmas was just last week so he answered, "giving and receiving gifts." Chris also added that his brother let him borrow his bike while he's home from college.

I asked Chris if he had a personal mission statement or life's purpose and he answered, "to get through college and find something that I like."

When I asked Chris something about himself which he would consider to be a success, he answered, "that I made it to college!"

Thank you, Chris! Wishing you success in school and whatever comes next.

Day 146 - Susan

This is Susan. We met at the trail.

"My health is good and my children are fine," Susan answered, when I asked the happiest thing happening in her life right now.

Susan's recent act of kindness is that she does volunteer work at the free clinic.

I asked Susan if she has a personal mission statement or life's purpose and she answered that her purpose in life is "to watch my children grow up, doing well." Susan said that's the main reason she doesn't want to exit life early.

"I'm 73 and still working," Susan said, when I asked her something about herself which she would consider to be a success. She had also just finished walking 5 miles with her dog! (I think she said 5 miles.) I told Susan that my mom is her age and she's still working as well, and that she thinks it keeps her young. Susan agreed and told me to tell my mom that she's right!

Thank you, Susan!

Here's a summary of the personal mission statements or life's purposes of the subjects from this week:

To reach people for Jesus, finish the movie, and singing.
To find happiness, be open to all types of people, and to be a good person in general.
Raising my son to be a loving and caring gentleman.
Do the best you can and try not to hurt anyone while you're doing it.
To be rich and pass wealth onto my children and grandchildren so they don't have to struggle the way I did, and so they can become contributors and not takers.
To get through college and find something that I like.
To watch my children grow up, doing well.

Thank you for following along, and thank you to all of the subjects in this project! We're learning so much from you, and appreciate that you shared yourself with us.

Thank you!

365 More People Pictures - Week 7

September 27, 2014 Joey Gentry-Smith

Hello! Week 7 is a wrap!

Day 42 - Teri

This is Teri. She was walking her dog at Esther Short Park when we met. Teri quickly and happily agreed to let me take her picture and I should have realized then, it was because she's a photographer and she "gets it."

I learned that Teri has been a photographer since the age of 4! She's a highly sought-after, fine art photographer from New York, and her specialty was nudes. She recently moved to the Northwest to chase another dream of becoming a Park Ranger. I enjoyed hearing about the the contrasts in Teri's life. Teri moved from the east coast, big city, big art world, to pursue life on the laid-back left coast and to become a park ranger. She said that being closer to nature has filled her with new inspiration and she now has an opportunity to concentrate on landscape/nature photography.

Teri and I made for such a funny pair. You would think that we should have made for a great team, but I was busy being nervous about wanting to do justice to an accomplished artist, and Teri was busy being nervous about allowing herself to be in front of the camera instead of behind the viewfinder and in control of the process. I found it so ironic that Teri has been up close and personal with nude subjects, but she's totally camera-shy when she's the one in front of the lens. I can totally relate. Having my own picture taken is a miserable experience. We finally both just had to let go and have fun with it!

I asked Teri the happiest thing happening in her life right now and she said that she just returned from a vacation on Maui. The Maui trip was also the act of kindness Teri received, as it was a treat from a friend. As we were mid-interview, another woman approached us in the park and thanked Teri for the print she had just given her. The woman told Teri she had just hung it, and was remarking how much she loved it. I interjected that not only had Teri been on the receiving end of an act of kindness, but it sounded like she had also just given an act of kindness as well.

"To live life to the fullest," Teri answered, when I asked if she had a personal mission statement.

I asked Teri something about herself which she considers to be a success and she answered, "being nominated for the Louis Comfort Tiffany Award." Teri clarified that she didn't win, but still, having been nominated was still quite an honor.

Teri explained that her site isn't up-to-date, but you can check out her work here.

I feel fortunate to have met Teri and I enjoyed listening to her, and trying to learn from her. She even extended an offer for me to consider her as a resource as I get deeper into the process, and perhaps someday host a pop-up show to thank all of the subjects in this project. (Which is something I've been dreaming of, but I've just become overwhelmed at how to actually execute a showing or celebration party for subjects from the first 365 Day Project.)

Thank you, Teri.

Day 43 - Elliot

This is Elliot. He was near the Hollywood Theatre, waiting for his friend to arrive.

"School is starting, I'm very happy about that," Elliot answered, when I asked the happiest thing happening in his life right now.

I asked Elliot if he's been on the receiving end of an act of kindness and he said that his mom recently gave him a nice set of knives. I agreed this was an excellent gift because a good set of knives could possibly last his entire lifetime.

"Power to the people," Elliot said, is his personal mission statement.

When I asked Elliot something about himself which he would consider to be a success, he answered, "aside from the beard?" Haha! Such a great answer! He then circled back to his return to school and that he feels successful having finally figured out that he should be an English major.

Day 44 - Drew

This is Drew. I spotted him on the sidewalk.

"I got a new job," Drew said, is the happiest thing happening in his life right now.

Drew was just recently on the receiving end of an act of kindness, in that his friend gave him free tickets to a show.

Drew wasn't sure about a personal mission statement or a life's purpose, saying simply, "I'm just trying to get by."

I asked Drew something about himself which he considers to be a success and Drew answered, "graduating college."

Drew has a job in his field of study, so right now - it is a success when someone has a job and it's actually in the field for which they attended school!

Day 45 - Julie

This is Julie. She was waiting at the bus stop when we met.

I worked late on Wednesday and it was dark by time I left. I was concerned because I'm now out of practice when it comes to shooting in the dark. Especially considering, I'm trying to learn how to shoot without a flash in low light and when it's dark. It's NOT easy. Until Julie, I don't think I've ever managed to take a nighttime/dark photo that wasn't complete blurry or just horrible. Julie was great luck and she was patient with me as I tried both a flash and non-flash picture.

The happiest thing happening in Julie's life right now, is that she's working her dream job. Julie is the owner of the Julie Lawrence Yoga Center. Julie also feels this is something about herself which she would consider to be a success. Julie followed her dreams of becoming a professional dancer, which lead her to her now dream-come-true situation of running a yoga studio.

I asked Julie if she had a personal mission statement and she explained she actually has a 5-part mission statement:

1 - "Experience and share love."

2 - "Seek out learning opportunities."

3 - "Be physically active."

4 - "Remember to laugh and play."

5 - ...

You know that feeling when your mind goes blank on you? Well, that happened when Julie attempted to give the 5th part of her 5-part mission statement. The bus was approaching us, we needed to hurry, so we just left it at 4. Four excellent little nuggets for us to remember!

Day 46 - Becki

This is my very dear, and very special friend, Rebecca. Yes, she may look familiar to you from last year's project. It was almost exactly a year ago when Becki was a subject in the first 365 Day People Picture Project. It's been fun to include my friends in the project and I try to take their picture when we get together for their birthday celebration.

"My family, my husband and my kids," Rebecca answered, when I asked the happiest thing happening in her life right now.

I asked Becki if she's been on the receiving end of an act of kindness and she replied, "Yes! Tonight...birthday gifts and an amazing dinner!" We got together for dinner and laughs with the family and our other friends, Debbie and Lou. When it came time to take Becki's picture, it was pitch dark outside and I couldn't even tell what these two were up to. The sneaky little photobomber is our friend, Debbie.

I asked Becki if she had a personal mission statement and she answered, "life's too short. Don't put off till tomorrow what you can do today because you might not be here." Becki would know. She barely survived what could have been a fatal car accident, shortly after we finished high school. The crash, and her rehabilitation, were both life-changing and life-affirming for Becki. Since then, she's become the most generous person I know when it comes to sharing love, laughter and happiness.

I asked Becki something about herself which she would consider to be a success. "My family, friends, and my volunteering," Rebecca answered. Rebecca is always donating her time and efforts to one cause or another. I'm completely awestruck with her life and how she makes time for work, family, volunteer work, and fun! She'll be the first to tell you - she makes time for fun and she makes sure that we all make time for fun too!

Becki, I'm so glad you were born. Happy Birthday, dear friend.

Day 47 - Sky

This is Sky. She was waiting at the bus stop when we met.

The bus would soon be approaching, so again, we had to keep things at a fast pace. I quickly shot three pictures of Sky and then asked the interview questions.

"I'm really excited to go back to school," Sky answered, when I asked the happiest thing happening in her life right now.

I asked if Sky has been on the receiving end of an act of kindness and she immediately replied, "yes, many times!" But she explained she couldn't think of a specific example at that moment. This is so common. Several people seem to have a general sense and feeling that the world is kind to them, but usually the pressure of me asking for an example, makes it difficult for them to think of something specific.

"I'm all about my family, and I like to make my family happy," Sky answered, when I asked if she had a personal mission statement or a life's purpose.

When I asked Sky something about herself which she would consider to be a success, she also circled back to starting school again. Sky is only 20, but she already has 4 years of college under her belt!

I'm glad I bumped into Sky...brains, beauty, and a such lovely person to visit with.

Day 48 - Brian

This is Brian. We met at Esther Short Park. When I approached Brian to take his picture, he agreed quickly, gave me a big smile, but then his expression changed and I couldn't get a read on what was happening. Not wanting to keep him from anything, I asked if he was in a hurry. He said that he had time. The area is somewhat tourist-y, so I asked if he lives around here. Brian then said that he's homeless.

Damit. Damn. Damit.

I've intentionally avoided asking people who are homeless if I could take their picture. The reasons are many, but basically, it is out of respect. It is out of respect for their situation, and in wanting to preserve dignity.

I had already asked Brian if I could take his picture. It would have been more disrespectful and painful to abort, than it would be to move forward with the picture and interview. And, from our very short interaction up until that point, I already got a good vibe from Brian. I was already in. I already cared.

Brian and I shared an intense and brutally-honest conversation. The kind of conversation that is so intense, it's probably not even one that he's been able to have with his friends or family.

I hate addiction. I hate that some people are born with different wiring. I hate that some people are fortunate to have been born with a dimmer, but other people are born with an on-off switch. For those people born with an on-off switch, there is no in-between. There is no, let's turn-up-the-lights-just-a-little-and-have-a-cocktail-with-dinner setting. There is only on, or off. Once the switch is flipped and the person is exposed to a mind-altering substance, it's on all the way. The hungry addiction receptors are fired up and begging to be stimulated and fed. Once the switch is flipped, it's so easy for a person to abandon and lose everything they are, everything they were, and everything they hoped to become. It's so easy to lose your footing when you're a person born with a switch instead of a dimmer. Once you lose your balance on the tightrope of addiction, the fall may not be swift, but it is certain. Once you've fallen off the tightrope completely, you don't even know, or care, that you're falling...as long as it feels good on the way down.

Not every person born with a switch instead of a dimmer, falls to the point of homelessness. Some are fighting the battle from the comfort of a warm and cozy home, but the battle is still life-destroying nonetheless.

Brian had a good life. He was married. He had a great job. He's soft-spoken and personable, and his intelligence is apparent in his articulate speech. Brian has just finished his time squaring-up with the law, and has intentions to go back to school. He had intentions, that is, until he sabotaged himself. Again. Brian is feeling frustrated and disappointed with himself and he can't understand why he keeps repeating the cycle no matter how much he's ready to make the change for good. He's so close. I know he can flip the switch to off.

My canned interview questions seemed so ridiculous, given the circumstances. I apologized to Brian. I told him I was still going to ask the questions I normally ask, even though his situation is a difficult one. I explained the questions have been stealthily designed as an exercise in gratitude. (and inspiration and motivation as well.) I hoped he would feel better and more optimistic when we were finished, but I knew there was a huge risk that the questions could result in him feeling more helpless and hopeless.

I asked Brian, if he could think of anything happy, in spite of his situation. He shook his head, "no, nothing," Brian answered, as he appeared to hold back tears. "Nothing?" I asked. "No, this is pretty much the highlight of my day," Brian said. "Well, we have that in common, because this is the highlight of my day too," I shared. I pleaded with Brian to consider that every day he wakes up, every day that he's alive, is a reason to be happy. "If you're alive, there's hope," I added. Brian agreed, reluctantly at first, and then said "yes, I'm alive."

I asked Brian if he's been on the receiving end of an act of kindness and he said that a woman at a church gave him a really nice sweater/jacket, and then he turned to show me the jacket on his backpack.

I asked Brian if he had a life's purpose, or a personal mission statement. Brian answered, "to not to fall back into drug addiction." I wanted Brian to walk away from our interaction feeling filled with hope and having a plan. I wanted to hear the words from Brian about his next step in life. No matter who we are, or what our circumstances, the more we share our plans or intentions, the closer we become to making them a reality. I wanted to hear Brian tell me that he was going to get back on the waiting list for treatment. I wanted to hear Brian tell me his plans to get financial aid to return back to school. I wanted to hear Brian say the words that he will find a living situation and get off the street. It was important to hear Brain say all of those words and lay out all of those plans, because I wanted Brian to hear the words, and believe them. I want Brian to be one step closer to making his plans become reality. He's got them. He's got the plans and a foundation is built. I pray Brian can be freed from a life of addiction and reclaim his life, or a new and better one.

I apologized to Brian for "mom-ing" him, and told him I believed he could do it. I believed he could get himself together. Brian needed to hear that another person believes in him, so that maybe he'll believe in himself. Brian knows where to get help, and how to get help. I dream for the day in our country that when a person is ready to get clean, the resources are there for them to do so. The free program here in the area often has a waiting list to get into the residential treatment facility, and by time a person gets to the top of the list, they may be back out using again.

After we finished, I asked Brian if he had food for the day. He answered, "not really." I told him I had some in my car, if he wanted to walk with me. We talked while we walked. Brian openly and honestly shared the Cliff's notes version of his life story with me, and now it was his turn to ask questions about mine. He mainly wanted to know about the project, and why I was doing it. "What's the objective?" Brian asked. I, also giving the Cliff's notes version, explained that I just wanted to see if I could do something every day for a year. I pointed out the similarity between doing a 365 day photography challenge, and being clean and sober. I took one picture a day, and before I knew it, I had strung together an entire year's worth of pictures without any gaps. Brian understood and confirmed..."just like being clean and sober...one day at a time, and before you know it, you've got a year."

We reached my car and I unlocked the trunk and gave him all I had. He asked, "do you always drive around with sack lunches in your car?" "Yes, I try to," I answered. "They're for the people I may meet...who may be hungry." We talked just a few moments longer, we both thanked one another, and I told him once more that I believed in him...hoping he'd feel it enough to believe in himself.

If you're the praying kind, could you say a prayer for Brian and anyone you know who struggles with addiction. May they be free.

Here's the summary of the mission statements and life's purposes of the subjects from this week:

To live life to the fullest.
Power to the people.
I'm just trying to get by.
Experience and share love.
Seek out learning opportunities.
Be physically active.
Remember to laugh and play.
Life's too short. Don't put off till tomorrow what you can do today because you might not be here.
I'm all about my family, and I like to make my family happy.
To not fall back into drug addiction.

Thank you to each and every subject from this week, and in the entire project.

Thank you again for following along.

Have a great week!

365 Day People Picture Project - Week 34

April 6, 2014 Joey Gentry-Smith

Hello! We're inching closer to the finish line and I confess, I'm starting to feel a little sad about the thought of the project ending. Taking pictures and meeting new people each day has become such a huge part of my life, I can't imagine not doing it. It's been strange that I keep hitting little roadblocks in the photography workshops I've intended to take. Maybe it's a sign that I should continue for another year so that I can get some real instruction under my belt, and then I can really be able to improve on the quality of the pictures I can take. Maybe this first year is just a little warm-up? For now, I just need to concentrate on each and every day and not worry about what's to come. I will just enjoy this process each day.

This week is a first. You'll notice the pictures for the entire week are all Black & White. Until now, I've forced myself to include color pictures each week. For having basically zero photography experience, the first thing I noticed about myself and the process, is that I immediately developed a preference for Black and White. Although I think I'm influenced by growing up in the 70's and 80's and the recall I have of my most favorite photographs being in black & white, it just seems like you can see people better when they're in black and white. You can really see them. You can see their sparkle.

Day 232 - Scott

Scott had just finished a 15 mile run when I asked if I could take his picture. I mean, he actually just finished. Hardly even winded, he agreed. Scott is training for the upcoming Timberline Marathon and an Ultra Marathon, the Mt. St. Helens Volcanic 50. Wow!

I asked Scott the happiest thing happening in his life right now and he replied that he's super happy about his son's new school. They had made the decision to transfer him from his current school and into a new program and the switch has been working out for him. Scott also finds happiness in running.

I asked Scott if he had recently performed an act of kindness. He replied, "I said 'hi' to a bunch of people on the trail." I laughed and confirmed that he had said "hi" to us, every time he passed us by.

When I asked Scott if he had a personal mission statement or if he could think of one, he replied, "You're stronger than you think you are. You can do more than you think you can."

I love the sentiment in this quote and it's pretty much the perfect motto for a runner. Scott and I had a nice visit afterward about the mental aspect of completing a marathon. One thing that I've found so interesting and beautiful about runners, especially one who has finished a marathon, is that they appreciate the efforts of anyone who has finished a marathon, regardless of their time or if they're a walker or runner. Scott is an Ultramarathoner but he didn't discount my accomplishment as a walker and having finished 4 marathons. It really is a beautiful community!

Day 233 - Broc

This is Broc. The happiest thing happening in his life right now is his relationship.

I asked Broc if he had recently performed an act of kindness. He explained that his girlfriend's mother had just passed away and he went with her to support her during this sad time and will continue to support her in anyway he can.

I asked Broc if he had a personal mission statement, or if he could think of one on-the-spot, and he replied, "you get what you put into it."

I've been playing with a new question this week and it's actually proving to be difficult for people to answer. I've enjoyed watching people as they search for an answer, and it's been priceless to see the look of satisfaction on their faces as they decide on the answer. I asked Broc if he could name something at which he considers himself a success. He replied, "music!" Broc is a drummer, and also DJ's the weekly BassFace show at The Q Nightclub in Downtown Vancouver.

Day 234 - Ken, Bear, and Tiz

I first spotted Bear and Tiz playing at Mt. Tabor. Concerned they may have been escape artists who had fled from their yard, I walked down to the grassy area where they were playing so that I could investigate. Once I was closer, I also spotted Ken, their human. Once I realized they were ok, I then decided to ask Ken if they would be in the project.

It was pretty funny. Ken happily agreed to let me take his picture and then as we began to shoot, he then confessed he really doesn't like having his picture taken. At all. He said he gets all weird. It was pretty evident that Ken went from being nice and easy-going, to looking as though he would have been less uncomfortable if he were at the dentist. I could read the discomfort on his face and we weren't getting a happy picture. I finally suggested we just go back to him playing with the dogs. Instead of trying to get a "portrait," I would just try for a fun picture of the dogs admiring him. It was a fine enough idea, but by then, the dogs were finished being models and they just wanted to play more fetch! I got this picture just in time!

I asked Ken the happiest thing happening in his life right now and he responded, "this!" I'm absolutely positive if Bear and Tiz could talk, they would have agreed completely! All three of them were having a blast!

I asked Ken if he's performed an act of kindness. He was having difficulty thinking of something specific, and then replied that he's "interested in other people's lives." Although this isn't a specific act, I started thinking it is actually the entire foundation upon which kindness is built. Being kind begins when we care about people other than ourselves.

When I asked Ken if he had a personal mission statement, he laughed and said that having a mission would go against everything he stands for. He wants to "Roam the Earth." We laughed and discussed the irony that his lack of a mission, "Roam the Earth," is indeed, actually his mission!

I asked Ken if he could name something at which he considers himself to be a success. "I'm a successful bike commuter," he replied. He rides daily, and he's also never had a serious accident.

Day 235 - Jessica and Minh

Jessica and Minh were running the stairs at Tabor. I was concerned I was interrupting their work-out, but I think they were ok with an extended breather at the bottom of the stairs.

I asked Jessica and Minh about the happiest thing happening in their lives right now. Jessica replied, "being young and relaxing." Minh replied, "living life!"

Jessica's recent act of kindness is that she picked flowers for her Mom. Minh's act of kindness is that he gave a stranger a ride home back when we had the big snow storm.

Jessica and Minh were both ready with an answer when I asked if they had a personal mission statement or if they could think of one. Jessica said, "helping people to integrate physical activity into their daily lives." Minh replied, "inspired to inspire!"

When I asked the friends if there was something at which they considered themselves to be a success, Minh quickly responded, "I'm a good role model to my nieces and nephews." The question was more challenging for Jessica. She named several things she wanted to, or hoped to be successful in the future, but was stumped for something at which she was currently successful. Wanting to help her out with some ideas, I said it could be something fun, "like being a successful chocolate chip cookie-maker". I somehow randomly hit on something at which she does indeed consider herself to be successful! Jessica replied, "I'm a good baker!"

Jessica and Minh, in my opinion, are both quite successful at being really nice people.

Day 236 - Juan

This is Juan from Plaid Pantry. I've been saving Juan for a literal rainy day. He's worked at the new Plaid Pantry for a while and I've known I wanted to ask him if he would be in the project, but I've delayed asking him. Knowing there would be days which would be too rainy to look for a person outside, I've been reserving a few back-up people who I would be able to take their picture indoors. It was pouring Thursday and I was in luck that Juan happened to be working.

I asked Juan about the happiest thing happening in his life an he replied, "my girlfriend and my music."

I asked Juan if he's performed an act of kindness and he replied, "yeah, hopefully." He thought for a moment and then said that his buddy is going through a break-up so he's tried to be a friend and counsel him.

When I asked Juan if he had a personal mission statement or if he could think of one on-the-spot, he said it could be summed up as "self-actualization." He wasn't referring to self-actualization in the Maslow sort of way. Juan said, "I want people to embrace who they are, and what they have." Juan went on to explain how terribly shy he was before starting his job at Plaid Pantry. His first few shifts sounded like they were awful because he was painfully shy. As time went on, he became more comfortable talking to customers and now he's able to easily and comfortably talk with anyone. He said he had to first figure out who he was so that he could break through that barrier of shyness and interact with other people. I found it pretty ironic that Juan and I, both painfully shy people and basically strangers to one another, were sharing a meaningful conversation and taking pictures like old friends. I guess we've both had breakthroughs.

I asked Juan if there's something at which he considers himself to be a success. He was having a hard time identifying something, so I prompted him by asking about his music. He didn't consider it to be a success because he's not finished yet. He hasn't gotten to where he wants to be. (Hmmm, that made me want to reconsider and redefine our meaning of success. Why can't we be a success during the process? Isn't sometimes the process of becoming a "success," actually the true success?) Juan decided that he's a success in that he's always working on something and he's been successful in his relationships. He's had one relationship since he was 16 years old.

Check out Juan's band, Hail the Artilect.

Day 237 - Ed

Ed was waiting for his friend to arrive when I approached him on the patio at Rontoms. Ed was so nice and so interesting, I would have enjoyed hanging out with him a little while longer.

I asked Ed the happiest thing happening in his life right now and he replied, "I'm looking forward to summer." (Of course everyone looks forward to summer, but I don't think people quite understand how much of a thing this is. Summer and sunny weather in Portland is a very big deal! Doing nothing on a summer day in Portland, is one of the greatest things you can do!)

When I asked Ed if he's performed a recent act of kindness, he said he tries to find an act of kindness to do each day. Ed is another person whose life and profession is actually an act of kindness. Ed supervises a community based, mental health crisis team.

I asked Ed if he had a personal mission statement or could think of one, and he was quick to answer, saying it's important to have a mission statement to help us in guiding our lives and knowing what we stand for. I loved listening to Ed. Ed's personal mission statement, "measure life in love."

Ed's mission statement is inspired by the musical, "Rent," and the song, "How do you measure the Life" but it was his time working in an orphanage that helped him to solidify his mission and purpose in life.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gsDvLTpuTvU

When I asked Ed if he could identify something at which he considers himself a success, he replied, "I'm a good social worker."

After we were finished with the pictures, Ed asked if he could preview them. He pointed out his two favorites and told me he would prefer I posted one of those two pictures. Ed was the most stylishly dressed man at Rontoms and although I loved the color of his sweater, I told him I intended to make his picture black and white. I think Ed's picture is another one of my favorites. Ed is model-like handsome, but what helped me to get a nice picture is that I was able to sit down at Ed's table and take my time. Plus, I immediately felt at ease with Ed.

We talked about how we, people, don't talk with one another any more. I told him this project has caused me to wish for a movement similar to "throwback thursday" where instead of people posting a picture from their past, I dream of "meet someone monday" where we post a picture of a random stranger we befriend. I'm meeting so many amazing people whom I wouldn't have had the pleasure of meeting had I not set out to do this project.

We finished just as Ed's friend arrived and Ed planned on asking his friend the same questions I had just asked him!

Day 238 - Jamie

This is Jamie, another master of the art of Mexican Mochas, from Ambiance Tan & Espresso.

I asked Jamie about the happiest thing happening in her life and she replied, "my new job." (Ambiance is Jamie's second job.)

Jamie's act of kindness is that she let a little fender bender slide and didn't report an accident in which a little old lady ran into her car. Jamie said she was fine, uninjured, and the dent in her car wasn't worth the bother. She didn't want the woman's insurance rates to increase because of the tiny accident.

Jamie's personal mission statement is golden - "treat others the way you want to be treated."

I loved Jamie's answer when I asked if there's something at which she considers herself to be a success. She replied, "learning how to control my control issues!"

Thank you to each and every person who has been a subject in this project! Thank you for your kindness and your time, and for sharing your picture with all of us. (Please let me know if you'd like a copy of your picture and I'd be happy to e-mail you!)

Here's the summary of the personal mission statements of the subjects from this week:

"You're stronger than you think you are. You can do more than you think you can."
"You get what you put into it."
"Roam the Earth."
"Helping people to integrate physical activity into their daily lives."
"Inspired to inspire!"
"Self-Actualization - I want people to embrace who they are, and what they have."
"Measure life in love."
"Treat others the way you want to be treated."

Thank you for following along!

If you'd like to follow along each day, I post the post the pictures to Instagram daily. My username is @missellanea.

Wishing you a great week...and what do you think, should we start a "Meet Someone Monday"?

Thank you!

365 Day People Picture Project - Week 33

March 30, 2014 Joey Gentry-Smith

Hello! Week 33 of The 365 Day People Picture Project is a wrap!

An interesting thing happened this week. I ran into 4 random people who have already been subjects in this project! One day, two separate and random subjects ended up at my work at the very same time! It was a pretty weird feeling and also one that I loved. This project has made my little world much smaller, or bigger, depending on how you look at it. I'm starting to feel a whole new level of connectedness and it's been such a pleasure meeting new friends. I'm meeting people whom I would have never had the opportunity to meet, had I not decided to just put myself out there and start talking to strangers.

Although I met some pretty awesome people this week ,and ran into a few people who I already knew were awesome, I could feel that I was having an off-week as far as the quality of the pictures I was taking. Instead of feeling defeated and like I want to give up, I've simply decided to chalk it up to being "off" for some reason. I'm not stressed. I know I can do better. If anything, I'm actually starting to feel a little bit of hope. If I can tell and see that I was having an "off" week, then that means I had been making progress! Yes!

Day 225 - Shanna

This is Shanna. She was hanging out with a girlfriend at Esther Short Park when I ran into her.

Shanna and I had actually met about a year ago at the Couve Couture Fashion Show. She's pretty unforgettable because, in addition to being beautiful, she's just soooo nice! She was one of the models in the show. Shanna is the type of person who just comes right up to you and starts a friendly conversation. It was great running into her again!

Shanna is a massage therapist and if you're in need of a massage, you can check her out at Natural Body Works Massage, in Vancouver.

I asked Shanna about the happiest thing happening in her life right now and she replied, "my beautiful husband and daughter, who I'm lucky to be a part of their lives." Shanna's act of kindness is that she just recently volunteered to start mentoring a lady to be a massage therapist.

I asked Shanna if she had a personal mission statement or if she could think of one on the spot. She replied, "to be involved with the community, to make this world and people more consciously aware of day-to-day life to live more fully."

Day 226 - Ed

This is Ed, of Ambiance Tan and Espresso. He makes the best Mexican Mocha in all of Vancouver! (Well, he and his Girlfriend are tied for the makers of the best Mexican Mochas in Vancouver.)

I asked Ed about the happiest thing happening in his life and he replied, "my relationship with my Girlfriend."

When I asked Ed if he's performed a recent act of kindness, he said that he bought milk and cookies for a little girl who had been in the shop. I also reminded him that the first time I came in, he had also given me a free coffee as well. I joked that I didn't know if that was an act of kindness or a means to get me hooked! (which I am!)

Ed was quick to answer when I asked if he could think of a personal mission statement. His personal mission statement, "do what you gotta do, to do what you want to do."

Day 227 - Natalie and Kate

Natalie (left) and Kate (right) were one of the few people at Mt. Tabor Park on Tuesday. The rain kept most people away, so we practically had the park to ourselves.

The happiest thing happening in their lives right now: Natalie, "I'm on spring break from engineering grad school." Kate, "I'm super excited to be healthy and able to enjoy the weather."

I asked Natalie and Kate if they had performed an act of kindness. Natalie helped a friend move, and Kate said that she was nice to somebody when she didn't have to be. We talked about that a little more...how when somebody wrongs us, it's not easy to take the high road and let things go, but it's the right thing to do when we can do it.

Natalie and Kate were both quick with an answer when I asked if they had a personal mission statement or if they could think of one. Natalie replied, "live in the moment." Kate replied, "survive and thrive."

After we had taken the picture and I asked the "interview" questions, Natalie and Kate turned the tables on me and caught me completely off guard. They asked me a tough question and now I'm determined to work on the answer. After asking a few questions about the project, they asked what I've learned, and what I've taken away from the project. I could only think of two quick answers but I'm going to compile a list in order to write an entirely separate post when the project is finished. After working on something for an entire year, this is something I must do and I'm thankful that Natalie and Kate made me realize that I need to start organizing my thoughts. I have a take-away nearly every single day, but I hadn't thought to sit down to actually articulate all that I've learned from this project.

Day 228 - Patrick and Polly

Patrick and Polly were taking a little walk at Mt. Tabor.

You've probably noticed by now that I've been spending a lot of time there lately. My friend and I hit the Mt. Tabor stairs after work, as training for the Race for the Roses Half Marathon which is in a couple of weeks. Although the location is the same, there are new and interesting people there every day.

I asked Patrick about the happiest thing happening in his life right now and he replied, "a deeper relationship with myself." When I asked if he had performed an act of kindness, he didn't give the specifics, but he said kindness is sort of his motto, so he thinks he's performed acts of kindness. Patrick's impromptu personal mission statement, "to be true to myself and true to others."

Day 229 - The Long Family

This is Mr. and Mrs. Long and they had just finished their workout at Tabor when I asked if I could take their picture for the project. They are about the sweetest lovey-dovey couple you could meet!

I asked about the happiest thing happening in their lives right now and Mr. Long replied, "we're going on the right track in our relationship with God. We put God first in everything we do." Mrs. Long added to that, saying she's also happy about "weight loss, and our anniversary." The Longs will celebrate their 1-year anniversary next week! Before telling me how many years they had been married, they asked if I could guess. I totally called it! I guessed this would be their first anniversary because they were still acting like newlyweds.

The Long's recent act of kindness is that they had met a man who just really needed someone to talk and listen to him. The man was in tears but they just listened to his story and now the man is going to attend Church with them on Sunday!

The Longs wanted to pass along information about an event happening at their Church, Highland Christian Center. There's a not-to-be-missed play happening on Saturday, April 5th at 4pm.

Day 230 - Frank and Jo Jo

This is Frank (left) and Jo Jo (right). This was such an awkward shot, given our positions, but Frank and Jo Jo agreed to let me take their picture for the project.

I asked about the happiest thing happening in their lives and Frank is happy about his March Madness Bracket. He's currently positioned to win about $800! Jo Jo is happy that his sons are "becoming their own personalities and finding themselves."

I asked the men if they had performed an act of kindness. Frank assisted a disabled Vietnam Vet by opening doors for him and helping him to get into his car safely. Jo Jo said that he bought a guy a beer and enjoyed his good conversation.

Both Frank and Jo Jo were ready with a quick response when I asked if they had a personal mission statement or if they could think of one on the spot. Frank replied, "it ain't bragging if you can do it!" Jo Jo replied, "to be better today, than I was yesterday."

Day 231 - Cassandra, Norris, Nanuk and Cotton

Wow, do they make a great pack or what? I had been sitting at the park for quite a while, looking for a subject. I was almost ready to give up and go elsewhere to find a subject but just then, I spotted Cassandra and her dogs. I knew it was going to be tough to get a good picture of them all, but I just couldn't resist!

Cassandra walks all three dogs with the same ease and control as one would walk just a single well-trained dog. Although all three dogs were quite well-trained, they would have much rather been walking than sitting still for a picture.

The happiest thing happening in Cassandra's life right now, is that she and Cotton are training for him to be a therapy dog. (Cotton is the one closest to her, on her right.) She's already taken the class and now Cotton is in the training program. When I asked Cassandra if she's performed an act of kindness, she said that she couldn't think of anything but she likes to talk and listen to strangers. I reminded her that she let me take her picture and that was an act of kindness, and also she and Cotton will soon be performing acts of kindness together.

When I asked Cassandra if she had, or could think of, a personal mission statement, she replied, "find your happiness."

Here's a summary of the personal mission statements from this week's subjects:

"To be involved with the community, to make this world and people more consciously aware of day to day life to live more fully."
"Do what you gotta do, to do what you want to do."
"Live in the moment."
"Survive and thrive."
"To be true to myself and true to others."
"It ain't bragging if you can do it!"
"To be better today, than I was yesterday."
"Find your happiness."

That's it for week 33!

Thank you for spending another week with me and the project!

If you've been a subject in this project, I can't say enough how much I appreciate you! Thank you for taking a moment out of your day to help me with this project! If you would like a copy of your picture, please don't hesitate to e-mail me and I'd be happy to e-mail it to you!

Thanks again! Wishing you a great week and that you'll "find your happiness!"

365 Day People Picture Project - Week 32

March 22, 2014 Joey Gentry-Smith

Hello! Thank you for reading week 32 of the 365 Day People Picture Project. It's been another week of both laughter and tears, and meeting strangers who became friends.

If this is the first time you've stopped by, I'm taking a picture of a person every day for a year and sharing that process here. Each picture is taken fresh daily. If you'd like to follow along, I post each picture daily to Instagram. My username is @missellanea and the project is tagged #365daypeoplepictureproject.

I got a new DSLR camera which sat for a few days because I was afraid to use it. Then one day, I just picked it up and started taking pictures. In attempt to learn photography, I challenged myself to take a picture of a person every day for a year. I still don't know how to use the camera properly but I study a little each day and keep trying to learn as I go. I was mistaken when I said this would be a photography project. It has evolved into so much more, to the point where I can hardly even call it a photography challenge. The focus has become the people who have opened themselves up and shared their lives with me. With us.

Day 218 - Dalin (left) and Mark (right)

Dalin and Mark had just been to the Vancouver Farmers Market and were hanging out in the park, enjoying the day.

I asked the happiest thing happening in their lives right now and Dalin said, "I'm getting to travel a lot." Mark said, "my new job!"

When I ask people if they've performed an act of kindness, they sometimes respond that they haven't done anything and it's usually followed by a look of disappointment. Sometimes, it's like I can almost see them adding "perform an act of kindness," to their mental to-do list. I'm sure everyone who has responded in this way, simply hasn't assigned any kindness-point value to the little things we do for our family and friends. I'm interested in the kind things people do for one another, whether the acts are for random strangers, or the daily gestures we perform for people close to us.

Dalin's recent act of kindness is that he made breakfast for his roommate. Mark's recent act of kindness is that he did his Sister's laundry! I'm sure Dalin's roommate and Mark's sister would definitely score them highly in the acts-of-kindness category!

I asked Dalin and Mark if they had a personal mission statement or if they could think of something on the spot. Dalin answered immediately, but he couldn't think of the quote word-for-word. His personal mission statement is borrowed from the movie, "The Secret Life of Walter Mitty" and it is the motto for Life Magazine. I researched the actual quote: “To see things thousands of miles away, things hidden behind walls and within rooms, things dangerous to come to, to draw closer, to see and be amazed,”

Mark decided on: "to be the best that you can be." Dalin joked that Mark was using the Army's motto and we laughed when we pointed out the obvious difference in Mark's mission statement: "to be the best that you can be," versus the Army slogan: "be all that you can be."

Day 219 - Nomar

I met Nomar at Mt. Tabor Park.

"Grandkids and springtime," Nomar replied when I asked about the happiest things happening in his life right now. I asked Nomar if he's performed a recent act of kindness and he replied, "all the time." One act of kindness that he and his wife love to perform is to watch their grandkids for their children.

I asked Nomar if he had a personal mission statement or if he could think of one, and he replied, "to be a good citizen."

I ran into Nomar again the next day and we watched a man create giant bubbles, on the top of Mt. Tabor Park, using a homemade bubble recipe and and a simple handheld bubble-maker. Nomar said he does this for his grandchildren! The kids in the park were having a nice enough time watching the giant bubbles but it was the adults who were completely mesmerized! (Check out the video below.)

Day 220 - Dee (left) and Trae (right)

This is Dee and Trae. They had just finished their stair work-out at Tabor when we met. Trae was starting to get noodle-legs when we were talking. I confess, I spent more time watching the Bubble Man than I spent working out that day, so I wasn't feeling as noodle-y as these ladies.

I asked about the happiest things happening in their lives and Dee replied, "being alive!" Trae's response, "ditto!"

I asked if they've performed a recent act of kindness and Dee said that she serves at her church and she babysits. Trae said she couldn't think of anything but knowing how brutal the stairs can be, by that time, she was thinking mainly of her tired legs.

When I asked if they have a personal mission statement or if they could think of one, Dee replied, "live life to the fullest."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aqfQMlv8SIA

Here's a short video of the Bubble Man on the top of Mt. Tabor. (and the reason my legs were nowhere near as noodle-y as they should have been.)

Day 221 - Courtney

This is Courtney. It was amazing watching her little light turn on when she was in front of the camera! I didn't have to search for her sparkle, she's like glitter!

I asked Courtney about the happiest thing happening in her life right now and she replied, "I'm dating a new guy."

Courtney's act of kindness is that she's raising money for the Crohn's and Colitis Foundation. There's a fundraising event at Mi Famiglia, in Oregon City, on May 6th.

When I asked Courtney if she had a personal mission statement, or if she could think of one, she replied, "be yourself and live life to the fullest."

Day 222 - Carlos Danger

Oh Carlos...what a character.

I had spotted a couple people standing outside of Sam's Billiards and beelined toward them for a block and a half so that I could reach them before they finished their smoke break. I had tunnel vision and was heading straight for them. I was so focused on those two people that I nearly missed Carlos as we passed each other in the crosswalk. I don't know what prompted me to stop to ask Carlos if I could take his picture because I was only a few footsteps away from the intended targets, but I'm so glad I did. I'm still laughing about our interaction.

Carlos agreed to let me take his picture before I had even finished giving my spiel. Within a matter of seconds, he was making ridiculous faces at me. I'm not talking the obvious funny face, but subtle facial contortions that resulted in pictures which look like the most awful photographic timing ever. I confess, the majority of the first pictures from this project look just like this, but it was an accident. Luckily, I would always end up with at least one usable picture. I couldn't even believe what was happening! We were complete strangers but within moments, his guard was down, he abandoned composure, and we were having fun. Well, perhaps Carlos is the type of person who doesn't have a guard...but whatever, I was having fun and I'm still laughing. (I wonder how many family pictures Carlos has contaminated with his sneaky prolonged blink and his exaggerated mid-speech "pose.")

I asked Carlos the happiest thing happening in his life right now and he replied, "my family is visiting." Carlos' recent act of kindness is that he made breakfast for his wife and gave her a ride to work.

Carlos thought for a while when I asked if he had a personal mission statement or could think of one on the spot. I could tell that he knew what he wanted to say, but he was in the process of assembling his words mentally. He decided on, "exploring the world and creating good things."

I asked Carlos what he creates. He explained that he's a writer. By profession, he writes code, but his passion is writing. He wants his legacy to be his writing. I was hoping he had a blog so that we could read his writings but when I asked if he had anything he could share, he rolled up his sleeves to reveal that he was wearing two braces for severe tendonitis. He said that his work is boxed up and in his closet. His personal writing has been back-burnered in order to continue working professionally, but he's optimistic he will heal and be able to write again soon.

After we were finished with our "interview," Carlos asked me if I would consider being on T.V. Uttt-oh, who is this Carlos and why is he asking me this, I was thinking. He explained that his friends have a cable access program and this project fits with the type of interviews they do. I didn't completely decline, but the thought of giving an interview is completely intimidating and terrifying to me. My close friends think the reason I started this project is so that I never have to be in front of the camera, and yes, as challenging as it has been, I prefer the position of being behind the camera. I told Carlos I was afraid that I wouldn't have anything important to say, but I would consider it. I told my friend about the opportunity and how awfully intimidating it sounded but my friend shut me down. He fed it to me straight, saying, "you sort of owe it to these people." He's right. By time this project is finished, 365 people will have opened themselves up and shared a glimpse of their lives with me, with us, and if the time comes when I need to do the same, then I need to set aside my personal discomfort and hesitation and just go for it.

As we were saying goodbye, Carlos basically insisted that I "use the good pictures," meaning, the silly ones. I absolutely do not want to use these but Carlos made his expectations pretty clear.

Day 223 - Shayna (left) and Trisha (right)

These beautiful ladies are Shayna and Trisha. I didn't know when I asked if I could take their picture, that they were also going to leave a permanent impression in my heart. Within seconds, I wished this were a video project because I knew I would be unable to convey the love and wisdom they were sharing. They are truly beautiful.

The happiest thing happening in their lives right now: For Shayna, "every moment that I'm with my wife because I don't know how much time is left." For Trisha, "my daughter and my wife. I live for them every day."

Trisha was recently diagnosed with cancer. Trisha and Shayna are preparing to go to battle and they've armed themselves with love, hope and optimism. You can feel the undercurrent of fear and uncertainty, but every time the undercurrent makes itself known, Trisha and Shayna grip tightly to their flotation device made of love, strength, and optimism and it keeps them from being pulled under and drowning in fear.

They told me of their marriage, their love, their daughter and their new little niece. To hear them talk, they would seem to be the happiest people in the world. Ironically, it is their preparation to battle cancer which has given them perspective on their lives and their happiness, and it has reminded them not take even one moment for granted.

Trisha was in a pretty serious accident at work. She's still recovering from the accident and walks with a cane. They've managed to find a silver lining even in the horrible accident. It was Trisha's accident which led to the discovery of cancer. Were it not for the accident, who knows how much time would have passed, or had been lost, before being diagnosed. The cancer was caught in time to be treatable, but even though they're optimistic, they're realistic and aware there are no guarantees. Quietly woven into all of the words of optimism and strength, Trisha said in a voice just barely louder than a whisper, that she has her life in order and it gives her some peace knowing that things will be taken care of.

I was tempted to skip the "acts of kindness" question because it felt so inappropriate to ask someone who is battling for her life, if she's performed an act of kindness for another. My gut told me it was ok to ask these two women. Shayna and Trisha told me that they had recently given a homeless woman $2, and upon realizing the woman was going to use the money to buy food for her dog, they proceeded to go to Red Robin and buy her dinner. When they returned to the woman, dinner in hand, they dug some more and ended up giving her every cent they had. (over $20.) My heart was both broken and filled to learn that these two who are dealing with a serious life altering, potentially life-ending crisis, managed to give absolutely every cent they had on them in order to help another human being who was fighting her own battle of where her next meal would come from. Shayna and Trisha are love.

I asked the women if they had a personal mission statement or could think of something on the spot. Again, it felt inappropriate to ask because they had already shared so much wisdom and strength, of which I can't even articulate and share with you. They were both prepared with quotes which they've adopted as their personal mission statements. Shayna replied, "be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some sort of battle."

Trisha told me that she had actually just had her statement tattooed on her body! She replied, "don't let your scars define who you are."

Trisha's Grandma, who is also battling cancer, got the same ribbon-heart tattoo. They said a tattoo is something their Grandmother would have never done, but she did so in solidarity. They said that Grandma fell asleep during her tattoo! I laughed and said Grandma must be one tough bird!

Shayna and Trisha are scared, but strong. They have a lot of love and a strong support system and they're going to live each moment to the fullest.

As I was "developing" the picture to share with you, I experimented with some softening and knew immediately that it was all wrong. These are women who don't need blurred or softening. These are two women who are most beautiful when you see every detail with 100% sharpened clarity. Every piercing, puncture, tattoo, scar, smile, freckle, and tear, is beautiful. They don't need retouching or softening on the outside because they are beautiful on the inside and nothing could make them any more beautiful than they already are.

Day 225 - Brett and Bree

Brett and Bree are runners who I met at the head of my favorite trail.

The happiest thing happening in their lives right now is that they're changing their way of life by eating healthy, diet and nutrition, and working out. They're also in the process of becoming official members of their church.

I asked if they had recently performed an act of kindness and Bree said that she had recently baked a huge batch of 60 brownies to take to her church which feeds homeless people once a week. After realizing the church feeds over a hundred homeless people a week, she's going to continue baking even more so that she can contribute to the effort to feed people. Bree said she felt funny talking about acts of kindness she's performed, sort of like it's not really right to tell people about them. I agreed and said that's kind of how I felt, or what I learned as well, but then I changed my mind and I'm hoping that by sharing other people's acts of kindness, maybe more people will be inspired to perform their own acts of kindness. I think Bree felt ok with my explanation and justification that it's ok for us to tell others about our acts of kindness if our intentions are to help inspire others to do the same.

I asked Brett and Bree if they had a personal mission statement or if they could think of one on the spot. Bree said they have actually been discussing a family mission statement but they hadn't quite yet solidified one, but their working mission statement is: "to put God first in everything you do and all the decisions you make."

Once again, the subjects from this week have left us with some pretty powerful personal mission statements:

“To see things thousands of miles away, things hidden behind walls and within rooms, things dangerous to come to, to draw closer, to see and be amazed.”
"To be the best that you can be."
"To be a good citizen."
"Live life to the fullest."
"Be yourself and live life to the fullest."
"Exploring the world and creating good things."
"Be kinder than necessary because everyone you meet is fighting some sort of battle."
"Don't let your scars define who you are."
"To put God first in everything you do and all the decisions you make."

If you've been a subject this project, thank you. Thank you for making this happen. I may have to refer back to my journal to remember each person's name, but I will never, ever, forget you. Shayna and Trisha, wishing you the best of luck and success and praying for strength and healing.

Thank you for reading and for following along on this journey!

See you next week!

365 Day People Picture Project - Week 28

February 22, 2014 Joey Gentry-Smith

Hi! We're finished with week 28 of the 365 Day People Picture Project! This has been one of my favorite weeks because of all of the kind people I met who agreed to be subjects in this project. This week has been a whole lot of fun with some really nice people!

Day 190 - Johnny B., Naomi, Matt and Dick

This is (from left to right) Johnny B., Naomi, Matt, and Dick. I met them outside of the Ink Travelers Tattoo Convention, in Vancouver.

I had been rejected a few times down at the park and remembered the Tattoo Convention was happening right down the street, at the Red Lion Hotel. I figured the show would have been winding down at that time, but hoped I'd still be able to find people in the parking lot.

It's still really hard for me to take a group photo because I always end up with at least one person who is blown-out or out of focus. I still love this picture though, but that's because I really liked this group of people.

I asked each of them if they've performed an act of kindness and Dick was the first to respond. As Dick was packing up for the show, he noticed a homeless person standing outside his shop. It was cold and the man wasn't wearing a jacket, so Dick gave the man a hoody from his shop. (I didn't find out the name of Dick's shop, but I think he's from the Seattle area)

Johnny B. recently had a close call as a pedestrian, when he was nearly hit by a car. The woman driving the car was extremely upset that she had nearly hit Johnny B., and instead of giving her a dirty look or getting upset with her, he gave her a Namaste-like gesture and said "have a good day."

Naomi said that she hadn't performed a recent act of kindness because she had been home sick the past two weeks. I asked if she had been on the receiving end of kindness during her sick time at home. She was actually the recipient of Matt's act of kindness. Matt had taken her out to eat when she wasn't feeling well enough to cook.

Day 191 - Anonymous Man and Anonymous Dog

I met these two while they were out for a little stroll. This was a pretty funny encounter. The dog was so excitable, nobody would sit still for a picture. If the dog was "posed," the man wasn't, and vice versa. We were having fun though!

I asked the man if he's performed a recent act of kindness and he replied, "every day." He tries to do something daily and he gives both money and his time to organizations that are important to him. Most recently, was a donation to the food bank. The dog is actually a rescue who was found in a horse stall. He's been with their family for 5 years.

I asked the happiest thing happening in his life and he replied, "being alive." (one of my favorite answers!)

Day 192 - Geoffrey

This is Geoffrey Hiller. I didn't know him before this day, but after talking with him and learning of his work, I'm honored that he let me take his picture and that he's a part of this project.

I couldn't find any parking in my normal spots so I had to park illegally in the lot belonging to an antique mall. I feel guilty when I do this and I know I'm risking a tow, but I'm so glad I was having an unlucky parking day and was forced to park in that spot. As soon as I got out and headed down the sidewalk to search for a subject, I spotted Geoffrey, talking to another man. I could see that he had a camera and knowing that a person with a camera will always let me take their picture, I knew I was in for a quick and "easy" day. I was mistaken.

I approached Geoffrey and the other gentleman and asked Geoffrey if I could take his picture for my picture project. I didn't even give my spiel before Geoffrey agreed and said, "sure!" I then asked the other man if they were together, and if he would like to be in the picture. The other man declined and then went on to tell me all about Geoffrey and give me an introduction to his work. The man went on to explain that Geoffrey is a well known documentary photographer who has traveled the world. He told me that Geoffrey is a Fulbright Scholar and his work has been in magazines. Utt oh, what have I got myself into, I was thinking.

Although I had become intimidated and somewhat embarrassed that I had approached a professional, and quite accomplished, photographer, Geoffrey and the other man were so nice and friendly, I forced myself to get over feeling awkward and embarrassed. However, I had interrupted an important conversation and felt pretty awful about that. Geoffrey and the man finished their conversation and said their good-byes, and then I was able to snap a few pictures.

Geoffrey asked several questions about the project and although I tried to answer, I felt like it really didn't matter what I said. Geoffrey "got" me. He understands why a person would want to take a picture of a person every day for a year. I think he was just helping me to identify my motivation.

Geoffrey directed me to direct him. Had the man not told me anything about Geoffrey, I would have been a lot less nervous but as it was, I felt like whatever I did, it was going to be wrong. Geoffrey let me do my thing and then he suggested another spot on the other side of the building, and for me to take the next pictures without a flash. It's funny, just those two simple changes resulted in a picture a hundred times better than the ones I had taken before his suggestions! A few quick pointers from a professional and I was already making progress!

I explained to Geoffrey that I normally ask a couple questions, but after overhearing his conversation with the man, the questions felt inappropriate. Geoffrey insisted it was ok, and to ask the questions.

"My Wife," Geoffrey replied, when I asked about the happiest thing happening in his life.

I asked if he's performed a recent act of kindness and that's when he explained a little more of the conversation I had overheard. Geoffrey was to fly out to New York the following day, to see his Sister-in-Law, who was nearing the end of her battle with breast cancer. Geoffrey's Brother passed away a few years ago and Geoffrey wanted to make the trip not only for his Sister-in-Law, but to also be there for his Nephews.

Geoffrey was so nice and so helpful. I appreciated that he gave me some of his time, especially when he probably really wanted to get some pictures of his own while we still had a little of the magic hour, and I'm sure he needed to prepare for his trip. Between interrupting his conversation, talking about happy times and then not-so-happy times, we were on a bit of an emotional roller coaster, but our shared love of photography was grounding. I asked Geoffrey his recommendation on a prime lens as I had become paralyzed in making a decision between a 35mm and 50mm. Geoffrey said that he loves and prefers a 35mm. I could even see the flicker in Geoffrey's eyes as he talked about his appreciation for a 35mm. Geoffrey is a documentary photographer and his love is photographing people. I value his input. The one slight challenge with a 35mm, is that I'll need to get comfortable with getting up close and personal in people's space, when I want to take a portrait. Geoffrey loves that part!

In our brief encounter, Geoffrey pushed me harder in a few minutes than I've pushed myself the past 6 months. He asked me what editing program I use. Being that he's old enough to have shot on actual film and has worked pre-digital, I thought he might have an appreciation and understanding, perhaps even defend, my somewhat "purist" approach to editing. I explained to him that I don't really do much to edit my pictures and that I do minor adjustments in iPhoto and and an app from the App store. (Obviously, I do experiment occasionally, using the programs I do have.) I told him that I've been considering Lightroom, but hadn't yet made the investment.

Geoffrey pushed. He explained how important it is to use an editing program if I want to improve my pictures. I realized in that moment, my "purist" approach has simply been an excuse and I've really just been scared and intimidated to learn something new. I haven't even learned how to use my camera properly, so the added fear of having to learn Lightroom or Photoshop has simply been too overwhelming to me. Turns out, I'm not "purist," I'm just someone who has been too scared to learn! Geoffrey helped me make another decision. He assured me that Lightroom is everything I could want and need. This was helpful as I've felt I should consider photoshop, but watching the designers in the art department where I work, has always intimidated me. Lightroom is a little more beginner-friendly. Geoffrey helped me to remind myself that with the evolution of digital photography, a successful image is not simply "captured," it is created. A photographer creates an image not only in the way they compose a shot, but also in the way they edit the picture in post. Editing a picture is definitely not "cheating," it is now as much a part of the art and the creation of a good image, as is proper composition and lighting.

As soon as I went home that night, I downloaded a trial version of Lightroom, after first spending some time on Geoffrey's websites. I encourage you to check out the links below to see Geoffrey's amazing work and the work of other documentary photographers that Geoffrey features on Verve Photo. Geoffrey has several websites and you could get lost for hours in each of them.

Geoffrey's main site is: hillerphoto.com

His work is powerful, and some of the images may move you to tears. You can learn more about his work and his life here.

Geoffrey is also the curator of: Verve Photo

Verve Photo is a gallery in which Geoffrey features other Documentary Photographers.

Intense and moving, is Geoffrey's work in Burma: Burma, Grace under Pressure

Who I thought was going to be an "easy" subject for the day, turned out to be someone who has pushed me and inspired me to be better. I had no idea when saw him on the street, that I was about to meet a world renowned photographer who would generously give of his time, and that our interaction could prove to be life-changing.

He just looked like a nice man to me - I did call that one right!

I love the irony that I had the opportunity to document the documentary photographer, and it was all because I was having a bad-luck parking day.

Day 193 - Misty

This beautiful girl is Misty and the picture doesn't even do her justice.

It was pouring rain and I needed fuel, in the form of coffee, before heading out to find a subject. Thanks to a driver who wouldn't let me change lanes when I needed to, I found myself back in the old neighborhood where I worked when I first moved to Portland. Remembering that the first coffee shop I ever visited in Portland was close to there, I decided to head in for the best Mexican Mocha in town.

Not only did I get my much needed coffee drink, but I also met Misty and asked if I could take her picture.

I asked Misty about the happiest thing happening in her life and she replied, "I just got my new place today!" She's moving soon! When I asked if she has performed a recent act of kindness, she said that she had given up her seat on the bus so that a group of little kids could sit together.

Day 194 - Jill and Bernie

I love this picture! Bernie is looking at me like he's had it with the paparazzi! I look at his little face and I hear, "whatcu talkin' 'bout Willis?" He was actually sweet and friendly, but I think I tested his patience with me when I asked Jill if we could get a picture of the both of them.

I was still smiling from having just run into Charles, from day 11, when I met Jill and Bernie, who had just finished their walk. I asked Jill about the happiest thing happening in her life and she said, "I'm just about to go on vacation!" I asked Jill if she has performed a recent act of kindness and she said that she volunteers for an arts education program.

I also learned that Jill is a jewelry designer! I love her work and have already spotted a piece on her Facebook page that I need! Yes, need! You can check out her work on her website, Lolabelle Designs, but do also check out her Facebook page as it looks like you'll find even more pictures of her creations there.

Day 195 - Anonymous Man at the Bus Stop

This is a man who was waiting for the bus. I think this is one of my favorite pictures so far, because of the different colors and textures in the background, the angle at which we were both positioned in relation to the background wall, and even the angle of our differing heights.

Anonymous man spoke with an accent, although his english was perfect. When I first approached him and he he expressed his hesitation to let me take his picture, I was worried we might have a language barrier. After talking with him, I realized language was not a barrier - he was just a little skeptical and cautious of my desire to take his picture. He agreed, but I like how you can see in his picture that he's a nice man, but still detect that he's a little curious as to why I would be taking his picture.

I asked about the happiest thing happening in his life and he said, "I'm going home to California."

His bus arrived and I thanked him for letting me take his picture.

Day 196 - Kenny

This is Kenny. He's another runner from my favorite trail. Kacey and I had just finished our walk when I spotted him. I took off after him, knowing I would never catch him if he started running, but luckily he was still warming up.

I love this little trail - I've seen Kenny several times and I'm sure we've exchanged the obligatory "g'mornin," per runner/walker etiquette, but it was nice to be able to say hello.

Kenny is training for the Newport Marathon in May, with the hopes of qualifying for Boston! He did the Portland Marathon in October and his time was just 5 minutes over qualifying for Boston. The Boston Marathon isn't something he had really considered, but when his time was so close in Portland, he made the decision to go for it! He said the training plan is hard and intense and he's doing a lot of speed, tempo and hill work, which isn't what he's been used to. I'm going to be rooting for him! Five minutes might seem like nothing, spread out over 26.2 miles, but to erase those 5 minutes from the clock takes intense training, guts and grit.

I've seen him run - I'm confident he's got this!

I asked about the happiest thing happening in his life right now and he replied, "the support of my family."

When I asked Kenny if he's performed a recent act of kindness, he hesitantly replied, "yes," but didn't elaborate. I asked if he wanted to share and he said it's kind of weird and wasn't sure if it's an act of kindness. He then went on to explain that his upstairs neighbor had accidentally closed the door behind her and locked herself out of her place with her 8 month old baby inside. (it may have been grand baby, I failed in my note-taking.) The infant was up and about and alone and she was worried something would happen. She went to Kenny for help and they called 911. They determined the quickest and most efficient plan would be for Kenny to just break in. Kenny broke through, by taking a hammer to the door knob, and saved the day! He was right - one wouldn't normally think "breaking and entering" would be an act of kindness, but in this case, he really saved the day!

We're all cheering for you, Kenny! Good luck!

If you've been a subject in this project - thank you! You're the happiest thing happening in my life right now and I appreciate your act of kindness in letting me take your picture. I keep forgetting to mention, if you've been a subject and would like a copy of your picture, please do e-mail me!

Thank you for following along with me on this journey. You're pushing me to stick with it and I love and appreciate your support and encouragement!

Wishing you a great week!

Thank you!

365 Day People Picture Project - Week 27

February 16, 2014 Joey Gentry-Smith

Thank you for checking in on week 27 of the 365 Day People Picture Project! If this is the first time you've stopped by, I've challenged myself to take a picture of a person every day for a year. The pictures are taken each day - I'm not stockpiling pictures for use at a later time. I've never taken a photography class and I still don't know how to use my camera properly, but I'm excited about an upcoming photography workshop that I'll join next month! Maybe now, we'll be able to see some improvement.

The majority of the people in this project have been strangers that I've met walking down the sidewalk, or in my day-to-day life. Also included are friends, family and few co-workers. The interactions I've had with each subject has varied from about 45 seconds, to a few minutes. (With the exception of my friends and aquaintences.)

Given my schedule and commute, I'm unable to spend hours looking for a particular "type" of person. Sometimes I take a picture of the very first person I see after I leave work. Although I would love to be able to wander Downtown Portland, looking for interesting characters, I've grown to appreciate the added pressure of the time constraints. It's been both challenging and thrilling to try to capture someone's picture before their bus comes to take them away. One other huge benefit of not being able to seek out a person with a particular look, is that I've been able to realize that every person we meet has their own unique sparkle.

I post the daily picture to instagram, and then post a summary of the week here on the blog. If you'd like to follow along, my instragram username is @missellanea.

Day 183 - Chuck

We were still in the midst of "snowpocalypse 2014" on Sunday and the options for a subject were going to be extremely limited. I thought back to the rules I had set for this project and recalled that I hadn't said that I wouldn't repeat the same person twice. If we weren't going to leave the house during the snow storm, I considered taking another picture of my husband. He suggested that I should take a picture of our our dog, Tabor. I had to remind him that although he's our baby, he's not human, and technically not eligible to be a solo subject in the 365 Day People Picture Project.

As home-improvement-project-luck should have it, we were forced to leave the house for yet another trip to Lowe's, and on the way home, we made a quick stop at the store for gas and groceries.

Chuck was getting gas on the other side of the pump from me. He didn't seem at all annoyed or confused when I asked if I could take his picture for the project. Our interaction was short and efficient. I asked Chuck about the happiest thing happening in his life right now, and he replied, "my grandkids." Chuck wasn't a talkative fella, and when I asked if he's performed an act of kindness, he simply replied, "not that I'm aware of."

Chuck has beautiful ice blue eyes! I've been fascinated by Chuck's picture. Is it just me, or does it seem like it would be impossible to guess Chuck's age, were it not for his silvery beard?

Day 184 - Erin

The snow and the freezing rain had finally stopped, and we started to thaw out from the storm on Monday. The streets and sidewalks were now at the icy-slushy stage. After work, I carefully made my way to one of my go-to spots for subject-finding. I don't think I've specifically explained this area or this process. I simply park my car and walk around until I encounter a person. Sometimes there are several people from which I can choose. Other days, I have to ask the first and only person I encounter. I think the storm put a chill on people's mood, because I got rejected three times that day, before finally bumping into Erin.

It still hurts my feelings when I get rejected. I had to remind myself that whenever I've been rejected, I end up meeting someone extra special and I've always been glad, in the end, to have been rejected. Erin was that extra special kind of person.

I asked Erin about the happiest thing happening in her life right now, "I'm going on a trip to Vancouver," she replied. We both laughed when she clarified, "Vancouver, Canada, not Vancouver, Washington."

Erin is an attorney and when I asked if she had performed a recent act of kindness, she said that she had just taken on a client's case, pro bono. I was a little surprised when Erin questioned if that counted. An attorney who helps someone who doesn't have the means to pay for for their services, is performing a huge act of kindness.

I also asked Erin what she would like to do with her life, if money were no object or no limitation, "travel," she replied.

Day 185 - Patsy

This is Patsy. I met him walking down the sidewalk.

When I asked Patsy the "happiest thing happening in your life" question, I was shocked by his answer. I'm sure it was harmless, especially considering what a nice guy he is. But, I'm still not going to say it. After our "interview," I asked him if there's anything else he wanted to say instead of the answer he had given me. He wondered why I wanted him to change his answer. I explained that it could be perceived as a little concerning, but he insisted that it's something that was making him happy. I finally came out with it and said that his answer just kind of scared me a little, to which he replied, "well, that's what you get when you ask a stranger if you can take their picture!" He said it jokingly, and I didn't feel at all threatened by him. I could tell he has a good heart, but I just don't want anyone who is reading this to get the wrong idea about him - so I'm just going to keep his answer to myself.

When I asked Patsy if he had performed a recent act of kindness, he said that he had just shoveled the driveway and sidewalk of his 87 year old neighbor. He had also transported his co-workers to and from work during the snow storm.

I asked Patsy what he would be doing with his life if money were no concern. "I'd be home taking care of my brother with M.S.," he replied.

Day 186 - Mercedes

I met Mercedes when she was waiting at the bus stop. She was wearing her headphones so I had to try hard to get her attention. It's such a delicate balance trying to flail your hands and arms with just enough effort to catch people's attention, but not so much as to freak them out by the sight of, you know, a crazy lady flailing her hands and arms.

I asked Mercedes about the happiest thing happening in her life and she replied, "I just got a new job!" She has one week left at her old job and then she's moving on to her new job which she'll be able to provide a lot of help and service to those who need it.

Mercedes' recent act of kindness is that she had just given money to a woman in the grocery store who ended up being a few dollars short on her purchase. Mercedes paid the difference.

I asked Mercedes what she would be doing with her life if money were no concern. She wants to "aid people in any way possible". She would also like to backpack. We both day-dreamed for a brief moment on what it would be like to be able to travel with a backpack full of money and be able to help whoever needed it. Although our interaction was brief, I was touched by Mercedes' kind-hearted nature, and how much she's driven to do good in this world. There have been several people in this project who have left a deep impression on my heart and mind. Mercedes is one of those people. I wish her well and hope that she's successful in her journey to help people.

Mercedes is a beautiful girl but I was having a hard time capturing it. (Due to my lack of knowledge and skill.) I had already made up my mind that I wanted to show her in black & white, so I was focused on getting a shot that would be suitable for black & white. I didn't think about it at the time, but I've now had trouble getting a picture with 2 other people in that very same spot. In my mind, it's a perfect spot for a night photo. I like how the light from window of the business we're standing next to shines on the person, and how the headlights from the approaching cars in the background gives the feel that we're on pause as the rest of the world is hurriedly passing us by. However, that perfect shot exists only in my mind. I think the degree of difficulty in getting a good shot in that spot, exceeds my capabilities at this point.

When I got home that evening to prepare Mercedes' picture for instagram, I got a pleasant surprise. I haven't appreciated sepia until I started this project. This project has made me realize that it takes a special kind of image to look nice in sepia. As I was preparing Mercedes' picture, I discovered that she's a person who looks nice in sepia! I actually have an edited version of this picture that I was tempted to share with you but I couldn't make up my mind if I had successfully experimented in a more artistic look, or if I had just completely blown it. It is basically an exaggerated version of this picture. The other version is a stronger vignette, with the majority of the photo dark, except for the glow from Mercedes' face, almost as if she were being lit by candlelight or some sort of up-lighting. If she were a singer, I could imagine the photo as an album cover. However, because I don't consider myself creative or artistic, I just couldn't trust my assessment of the image as being artistic.

Day 187 - Ben

This is Ben. I saw him sitting outside at Starbucks and told myself that if he was still sitting there after I parked my car and made it back across the busy street to where he was sitting, then I would ask him if I could take his picture.

I asked Ben the happiest thing happening in his life and he quickly responded, "my wife."

When I asked Ben if he had performed a recent act of kindness, he was having trouble thinking of something. Normally, I don't push, but since I had learned that this was "Random Acts of Kindness Week," I wanted to have something to share. After thinking about it, Ben explained that his boss really needed help with something. Ben trudged into work, during the snowstorm, on a Saturday, to help his boss with the issue.

After talking with Ben for a while, I learned that he also makes short films. You can see his work at mercerlunden.com. When I asked Ben what he would be doing with his life if money were no concern or limitation, he said that he would be making films, growing a garden, and watching T.V. We laughed when I said that he's already living the dream! Well, I'm not sure if he's growing a garden or not, but it sounds like he's close.

I watched a few of the films on the website. Given the nature of this project, I was particularlly struck by this short film, "A Picture of My Parents."

http://vimeo.com/35600988

Day 188 - Kathy

This is my dear friend, Kathy. We've been friends for 30+ years. We met in the 3rd grade, when our schools competed against each other in track. If I remember correctly, Kathy approached me at a track meet as we were waiting in line to throw the shot put. We were friends from that instant. Since we went to different schools, we would see each other only when our schools competed in track and basketball. We ended up both going to the same junior high and high school, and that solidified our friendship forever.

Kathy and her family are in town for her daughter's dance competition. Her daughter had her first solo dance competition on Friday afternoon, and I was able to leave work for a while in order to attend. I was so glad to be able to see this special occasion. It feels like just a few years ago that Kathy was pregnant. It didn't even seem possible that her daughter was the beautiful young woman up there on the stage, dancing so gracefully. I cried the whole time.

After her daughter's performance, I was able to give Kathy and her family a proper hello and exchange hugs. Our other friend, Shannon from week 8, was also able to attend. We had a mini-reunion in the hall of the convention center!

After we visited for a while, it was time for Kathy and her family to go settle into their hotel, but I wanted to take her picture before they departed. Technically, I hadn't even asked Kathy if I could take her picture for the project. I just assumed that Kathy would assume that, of course, she would be the person of the day! When you've been friends as long as we have, those sorts of conversations don't even need to be had. Although we never exchanged the actual words, I think we both probably had the conversation in our minds. Now that I'm thinking about it, I still don't think I "asked" her, I think I said something like... "ok, it's time to take your picture for the project."

We got a nice picture with the very first snap, but I continued to take a few more and then snapped a few of Kathy and her family. I did a quick review and although we got a nice picture, it was rather corporate headshot-looking. It wasn't quite what I wanted for her. I then asked Kathy if we could take a few more and I told her that she had to be laughing. It doesn't take much to make Kathy laugh, and as soon as I said the words, we both cracked up! Kathy's family was behind the scenes, also laughing, and they made it easy for me to catch Kathy doing what she does best - laugh!

Kathy and I have known each other for more than half our lives. We're the best of friends, but it took looking through a viewfinder for me to really see my friend for the first time. I mean, I've known all of these things for years, but I was actually seeing it for the first time. I was seeing her. Before me was my friend of 30+ years and I'm realizing that Kathy is always happy! She's always laughing! She's had me laughing the whole time I've known her. Teachers and coaches and people in authority have "shhhhhhed" us for laughing more times than I can count! Through the viewfinder, I could see my childhood friend who is now a beautiful wife and mother. I could see a woman who chooses happiness over stress or anger and if she finds herself in a tense situation, she infuses it with her laughter and you can't help but to feel happy when you're around her. I've known it subconsciously all along, but it wasn't until I was trying to capture her sparkle that I realized Kathy is always full of happiness and laughter and the most beautiful thing about her, is that she's contagious! She spreads it everywhere she goes!

In the viewfinder, I could see both my teenage friend and sometimes co-conspirator, and also the woman who has become loving wife and mother. I could see the woman who set aside her love of sports such as volleyball, basketball, track, and softball, in order to encourage and support her daughter, whose love is dance. I could see the teenage girl who could always make me laugh, and I could see the woman who still continues to do so. Through the viewfinder, I could see my beautiful friend and her beautiful heart.

"My family," Kathy said, is the happiest thing happening in her life right now. When I asked Kathy if she's recently performed an act of kindness, she was a bit slow to answer but her mom, Linda, answered for her. Kathy cared for her grandma (cleaned house and cooked her meals) when her Grandma came home from the hospital and was in the process of transitioning into a care facility. Kathy tried to dismiss this as an act of kindness, saying this is just what you do for family.

I asked Kathy what she would be doing with her life if money were no object and she said that she and her daughter have dreamed of being able to build a school for a community in a country that wasn't able to build one themselves.

Day 189 - Linda

Linda is Kathy's Mom. I headed down for the second day of dance competition and to take a picture of one of Kathy's other family members. Linda was the "volunteer."

Kathy and I were so close growing up that Linda was one more set of motherly eyes looking after me, and my mom was one more set of motherly eyes, keeping any eye out for Kathy. It was pretty difficult for us to ever get into too much trouble, considering we had a network of loving and protective moms who seemed to know every move we made.

I love Linda, because she's Kathy's mom and because she was a loving and caring mom, she was one more woman who was a help to my own mom. Our moms were extensions of one another and it's like they had this secret pact to keep a loving and watchful eye out for one another's children. They were a gang! One mom's turf was uptown, another mom's turf was downtown, another mom's turf was across town. Yep, that's it. They were a gang of loving mothers who were determined to keep us safe.

When I asked Linda about the happiest thing happening in her life, she said, "being with my children and my grandchildren, and my lil' dog, she makes me happy." I asked Linda if she's performed a recent act of kindness and she said that when she visits her mother in her care facility, she also spends time visiting with the other elders who don't have family or friends.

If you've been a subject in this project - thank you for letting me take your picture and share it here. A very special thanks to my two VIP subjects this week, Kathy and Linda. I love you.

Thank you for following along!

Have a big week!